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Classic Fruity Salad

2010-12-01T20:52:00.000-08:00

Ingredients

For the cheese balls

3/4 cup grated paneer (cottage cheese)
2 tbsp fresh cream
2 tsp finely chopped onion
2 tsp finely chopped capsicum
1/2 tsp finely chopped green chillies
1 tbsp grated coconut
salt to taste

Other ingredients

3 tbsp chopped pineapple
3 tbsp watermelon (tarbuj) balls
3 tbsp chopped peaches
1 tbsp grated coconut
lettuce leaves

For the dressing

1 tbsp lemon juice
2 tbsp honey
salt and black pepper (kalimirch) powder to taste

Method

For the cheese balls

1. Mix all the ingredients very well and shape into small balls.
2. Chill in the freezer compartment of a refrigerator for a few minutes.
3. Store in the refrigerator.

For the dressing

Combine all the ingredients in a jar, cover and shake vigorously to blend.

How to proceed

1. Arrange the fruit and the cheese balls on a bed lettuce leaves in a serving dish.
2. Pour the dressing on top and sprinkle the grated coconut thereon.
3. Serve cold.

13 Twitter Cartoons *lol

2010-11-04T03:42:00.000-07:00

Thursday 13

Sing with King

2010-10-30T09:57:00.001-07:00

Today we picked Stephen King. Here's Wednesday Wickedness!

1. “I tend to scare myself…”
When was the last time you scared yourself?

I scared myself when I almost talked my self into a commitment based on compromise

2. “Time heals all wounds…”
What was the longest it took you to recover from an illness, injury or surgery?

I am still healing from a couple of broken bonds - It shall heal with time

3. “Your first impulse is to share good news. Your second is to club someone over the head with it…”
What was the last good news you had to share?

I shared the news of a recipe success "Espresso Bavarian"

4. “When it comes to the past, we all stack the deck…”
Is there something in your past you speak highly of that was not so great while you were going through it?

I talk about everything which makes who I am today - my mistakes made me stronger and better! And in everything that happened I was a culprit too!

5. “Do you drink? Of course! I just said I was a writer!..”
What do you need to drink to do?

To do what? Write? Word Soup :)

6. “If you liked being a teenager, then there’s something really wrong with you…”
What did you like about being a teenager?

I never liked being a teenager. I wasn't the mod cool teen!

7. “Nobody likes a clown at midnight…”
What do you like at midnight?

I go completely insane and I can't sleep then ;)

8. “It is the tale, not he who told it…”
Who is your favorite teller of tales or jokes?

hmmm there was a friend but no more

9. “The trust of the innocent is the liar’s most useful tool…”
Were you ever conned or fooled into a scam?

No - not that I recall

10. “If fear cannot be articulated, then it can’t be conquered…”
What do you fear?

I fear to celebrate my 30th birthday alone

Martin Luther King, Jr. Wickedness

2010-10-06T22:49:00.000-07:00

1. “A lie cannot live.” When was the last time you felt you were forced to lie?

When I had to keep my marriage from breaking 3 years ago

2. “A man who won't die for something is not fit to live.” What, besides the lives of your family, would you be willing to die for?

I don’t think anyone else deserves it except family

3. “A right delayed is a right denied.” Are there rights or freedoms that you’d give up to be safer?

Yes – how about the right to step out of home to work – I sure would like to stay in and work

4. “All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem.” When was the last time that you solved a problem of yours just to create another?

Hahaha – you think I am nuts? Of course never!

5. “Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase.” What do you have faith in?

I have faith in the UNSEEN

6. “I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.” Do you believe things in generally will usually win out?

Every beginning has a favorable end is what I say!

7. “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” When was the last time that you spoke out to help someone that you didn’t have to?

A lot of situations like that occur and eventually I block them out so I don’t end up saying unnecessary stuff

8. “It is not enough to say we must not wage war. It is necessary to love peace and sacrifice for it.” Do you envision a time where the United States will not be at war? Why?

I don’t know – if they just mind their own business

9. “Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.” Is there anything that you are bitter about that you cannot get over?

Mmm I am bitter about the future that aint coming grr!

10. “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” Do you take chances by speaking up even when it could cost you something?

Hmmmm yes – I do take a chance and then say sorry too :D

The Threesome Meme

2010-09-19T00:02:00.000-07:00

Cheers to all of us thieves!

1. At what time of your life were you happiest and why?

When I got married! because I found my life's next phase!

2. Where and when did you meet the love of your life?

I met him on Orkut a very long time ago and then lost him to another woman

3. Favourite item of clothing ever or most treasured possession?

All my clothes, I can't pick and choose a favorite from all my favorites

4. Must-have makeup or beauty item?

kohl and eyeliner

5. What do you think is your worst vice or fault .. honestly?

i get turned off easily by people who talk nothing but negative (dunno if that is a vice or not but that is me)

6. Would you tell your friend, if you knew her husband/wife was cheating on her/him?

yes, i sure cant let a friend die ina relationship

7. What ambitions, wishes or desires, for your life, do you still hold close to your heart?

being a wife to a MAN

8. Where do you see yourself five years from now?

Please please, married and pregnant with a second child probably!

9. If you had the choice of any talent with the penalty that you would lose a talent in exchange, what would you want to gain, and what would you be willing to loose?

too tough to think right now, some other time please :P

10. Name three things that you do want completed in your life before retiring?

I want to travel. i want to get a higher pay raise and yes invest in insuranc.

11. Of all of the people out there who would have been your fantasy date? Date, not romance...

Hugh Jackman :D

12. Google put another spell on you, you have just changed genders for 48 hours... what are you going to do with your 2 days?

No No No! dont want!

13. If you owned your own island, and got to make it your own country, what would you call it? And why?

Divaalicious! because I'd be owning it duh!

14. If you rubbed the lamp and got 3 wishes, what would they be?

Get me the man of my life - make us a home far away from enemies and keep a watch on those who mean harm!

15. What is your earliest memory of puberty?

My crush is! which lasted for 7 long years!

16. If you got banished to your Island alone and could only bring 5 things, what would they be?

my blackberry, shades, laptop, music system and yes my wardrobe!

Thursday Thunks: You've Got Mail

2010-09-09T12:52:00.000-07:00

1. From whom did you get your last e-mail?

From a Blogger Friend

2. What is the most recent movie that you have seen in a theater?

Not been to the theater in months

3. Have you ever seen a ghost?

If I'd see one I'd tell you!

4. Ever loved someone so much it made you cry?

Yes! I did and I am glad I have bleak memory of it

5. What are you most afraid of?

I am afraid God won't accept my repentance!

6. What do you do when you are bored?

When I am bored I do MEMES! :D

7. Other than the author of this mess of a meme, who blog are you most curious to see their answers?

Whoever leaves me a comment :P

8. Name three thing from your bucket list.

Get Married
Honeymoon every Anniversary
Have Kids

9. Who was the last person who complimented you on how you looked, that actually was a surprise?

My ex!

10. Do you remember Berleen?

Berleen who!

11. What was the last concert that you attended where the band was much better than you imagined?

A Paki local band Junoon! and I am talking 1999!

12. What’s the next band you’re either planning to see or want to?

I don't like the concerts they are too LOUD!

13. What were the last things do you imagine that Kimber threw off the roof?

...................................

Wise with William

2010-09-08T11:43:00.000-07:00

1. “I've had lots of kids come up and ask for my autograph, I've had a grandmother stop me and ask me if I know a good place to buy underwear.” Where do you buy your underwear?

I call it lingerie and I buy it from where I have for 6 years :P

2. “I'm always open for people saying I'm wrong because most of the time I am.” How often are you wrong?

Thanks to Almighty 3/10 times probably!

3. “Harry can paint but I can't. He has our father's talent while I, on the other hand, am about the biggest idiot on a piece of canvas. I did do a couple of drawings at Eton which were put on display. Teachers thought they were examples of modern art, but in fact, I was just trying to paint a house!” What was the last thing that you drew?

I drew a design for my dress which of course was more of an illustration in pencil!

4. “I do think I am a country boy at heart. I love the buzz of towns and going out with friends and sitting with them drinking and whatever -- it's fun -- but, at the same time, I like space and freedom.” How would you describe yourself?

Sober n Sarcastic

5. “I remember her as being a huge inspiration to me, someone to really look up to and admire.” He’s talking about his mom. Who do you admire?

I loveeee my dad and so admire him and mommmmmmm she is just the best - so two big inspirations in the house!

6. “I think it's very important that you make your own decision about what you are. Therefore you're responsible for your actions, so you don't blame other people.” How do you think you are about taking responsibility for your actions?

I am always the first one to step up if something I do goes down in a boo boo!

7. “My guiding principles in life are to be honest, genuine, thoughtful and caring.” What are your guiding principles?

I have one principle 'be the person you seek and everything else will be perfecto!'

8. “Only the mad girls chase me, I think.” When you were, or if you are, single: What type of people chased you?

I chased the eligible sorts, with good educational backgrounds and decent looks!

9. “I don't deliberately select my friends because of their background. If I enjoy someone's company, then that's all that counts. I have many different friends who aren't from the same background as me and we get on really well -- it's brilliant.” How do you select your friends?

I don't select them, they just become friends!

10. “People say it's not ambitious, but it is actually quite ambitious wanting to help people.” When was the last time that you volunteered to help people?

Been forever! don't recall!

Mornin with Monroe

2010-09-01T01:25:00.000-07:00

1. "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." When are you are at you’re best?

At my best amid pleasurable excess!!!

2. "Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." Do you ever think that you are boring?

Yes I think so when my parents decline my within limits socializing with friends! And I just have to say no to them!

3. "A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left." Did you ever break off a relationship because you wanted to be the one to do it?`

No! never been the first one!

4. "It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone." Do you feel that she is correct?

I don’t think I can be unhappy with someone – it is alone that I am unhappy because happiness is a state of mind and if worded upon and developed you find a way to be happy!

5. "Ever notice how 'What the hell' is always the right answer?" What was the last thing that you didn’t plan on doing but then thought, “What the hell!”?

Last night’s get together with two of my besties. Just had dinner plans at the spur of the moment even when I was broke!

6. "We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid. So are regrets." Do you have any major regrets?

Yes I do, I am me and sometimes that gets to me!

7. "What do I wear in bed? Why, Chanel No. 5, of course." What do you wear to bed?

I wear my Pjs and T-shirt!

8. "It’s better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what your not." Have you ever pretended to be someone you are not because it was easier?

No! I had enough of that in the past – I m totally me now!

9. "I am invariably late for appointments - sometimes as much as two hours. I've tried to change my ways but the things that make me late are too strong, and too pleasing." Are you usually on time for events or appointments?

I am always on time!

10. "Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about." What makes you smile?

Love makes me Smile.

Day 30 — A lovely color but ...

2010-08-31T02:28:00.000-07:00

... I'll never use it for nail paint

Day 29 — Hopes, dreams and plans for 2010

2010-08-30T22:44:00.000-07:00

I am hoping to have a start to EVER AFTER!

I dream to wake up next to him probably end of this year or mid next year!

I plan to make babies as we grow together :D

Day 28 — Your favorite place to shop

2010-08-29T02:25:00.000-07:00

Day 27 — Your essence is

2010-08-28T02:22:00.000-07:00

Day 26 — Describe your week

2010-08-27T01:58:00.000-07:00

I am skipping the details and you how my past week was in minimum words.

Sulking Sunday

Mourning Monday

Tantalizing Tuesday

Wishful Wednesday

Thankful Thursday

Fiery Friday

Sober Saturday

You get the picture right? :P

Day 25 — What are you waiting for

2010-08-26T12:55:00.000-07:00

Day 24 — Whatever tickles your fancy

2010-08-25T01:14:00.000-07:00

Another day to quote what tickles my fancy!

Day 23 — A YouTube video

2010-08-24T00:54:00.000-07:00

Day 22 — A website

2010-08-23T23:14:00.000-07:00

Day 21 — A recipe

2010-08-22T23:10:00.000-07:00

Ingredients:

2lbs boneless skinless chicken breasts (cut into 1” chunks)
2 cups flour
5 teaspoons cornstarch (divided)
2 teaspoons baking soda
3 eggs (beaten)
oil (for frying)
Sauce-
2 cups chicken broth
2 tablespoons oyster sauce
1 tablespoon sugar
2 tablespoons soy sauce
1 teaspoon pepper
1 large green pepper (sliced)
1 large onion (sliced)
2 cups cashews
1/3 cup green onions (chopped)

Cooking Instructions:

Step 1: In a bowl mix flour, baking soda and 1 teaspoon of cornstarch. In another bowl beat the eggs. Dip chicken pieces first then the flour mixture, then in the egg mixture and then again in the flour mixture.

Step 2: Fry in oil in a wok or in a deep fryer at 350 degrees in batches until golden brown. Drain on paper towels.

Step 3: Heat a tiny bit of oil in the wok and stir fry green pepper and onions for 2-3 minutes. Remove from wok and set aside.

Step 4: To make the sauce- in a bowl mix chicken broth, oyster sauce, soy sauce, sugar, pepper, and 4 tablespoons of cornstarch.

Step 5: Pour sauce into wok and cook over medium heat stirring until well blended and sauce thickens. In a bowl pour sauce over chicken pieces, add green peppers and onions. Mix well and garnish with cashews and green onions. Serve with white rice.

Day 20 — A hobby of yours

2010-08-21T23:00:00.000-07:00

GETTING INSANE IN THE RAIN!

Day 19 — A talent of yours

2010-08-20T22:50:00.000-07:00

Day 18 — Designer that leaves you oohhh lala

2010-08-19T22:44:00.000-07:00

Elie Saab

Day 17 — An art piece (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.)

2010-08-18T22:33:00.000-07:00

The Starry Night by Vincent van Gogh (1889). Oil on canvas, 29x36 1/4" (73.7x92.1 cm). In the collection of Moma, New York.

Day 16 — A song that makes you cry (or nearly)

2010-08-17T02:53:00.000-07:00

IRIS - GOO GOO DOLLS

And I'd give up forever to touch you
Cause I know that you feel me somehow
You're the closest to heaven that I'll ever be
And I don't want to go home right now

And all I can taste is this moment
And all I can breathe is your life
Cause sooner or later it's over
I just don't want to miss you tonight

And I don't want the world to see me
Cause I don't think that they'd understand
When everything's made to be broken
I just want you to know who I am

You Know the rest :) If not watch it now!

Day 15 — A fanfic

2010-08-16T02:51:00.000-07:00

If you haven't read or watched it - you should - NOW!

Day 14 — A non-fictional book

2010-08-15T02:34:00.000-07:00

Man and bitch live happily ever after.

Do I need say anything more?

The book is a lesson in avoiding self-absorbed women that are really watching Gilmore Girls reruns as they pretend to lead much more fulfilling lives.

Day 13 — A fictional book

2010-08-14T02:29:00.000-07:00

The book I wrote :D "Unfaithful Love"

Not many know about it but as much as the characters are real - it still is based in fiction :)

Not everything can be revealed now can it - just to give you an idea ...

Ready for Romance?

At the age of Nineteen, Caroline Cole was wildly
infatuated with Matt Bradyn. But that was just a
teenage crush and now, almost five years later, she's in
love—truly in love—with the one whom she thought
was just another friend, Jeff Travis. But everyone,
including Jeff, believes she's just carrying an
infatuation! Caroline believes that she has finally
embraced her womanhood and love it is for her only if
it has Jeff in the picture..

Ready for Marriage?

Jeff has a woman he avowed to marry five years before

fate bought him Caroline… Jeff is in love with Susan

Baker. Her fate together with Jeff is a little uncertain,
while Jeff is making it possible every minute. Caroline
wants a possibility with Jeff. There is love, there is lust
and there are a whole lot of possibilities for the two to
be together, yet fate has other plans. Caroline wants to
have a chance with Jeff…. May it just be unfaithful!

love….

Day 11 — A photo that makes you drool

2010-08-13T02:20:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 Days Challenge

My imagination runs wild when I see this pic. Don't know what is it but I yearn for this object in the picture - call me materialistic but a girl's got have the best bag :D

Day 10 — A photo you just can't help sighing at

2010-08-12T01:05:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 Days Challenge

And this I just can't wait to embrace - I keep sighing at it - live or in a picture :( but I keep this one close - something about it is way too sigh - fulllll :D in a greattttttttt way!

I just cant wait to make moments like this of my own :)

Day 09 — A photo you took

2010-08-11T01:01:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 Days Challenge

And thanks to my Blackberry I now can randomly snap around whenever I want to :)

And the snaps are from the rainy day :D from inside my car.

The backview

The front view

Day 08 — A photo that makes you angry/sad

2010-08-10T11:57:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 Days Challenge

And I had to really think hard for this one - but then considering the moment where I am on a sugar free and carb free diet - this really is annoying me lately!

The ingredients:

2 cups Yoplait® Fat Free plain or Yoplait® 99% Fat Free creamy vanilla yogurt

1 bag (10 oz) Cascadian Farm® frozen organic strawberries
2 tablespoons orange juice
1 tablespoon honey

1. In blender, place ingredients. Cover; blend on medium speed until smooth. Add more honey to taste if desired.

2. Pour into 3 glasses. Serve immediately.

Day 07 — A photo that makes you happy

2010-08-09T00:49:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 Days Challenge

So this is it - the picture that makes me the happiest :D and I just can't wait to be part of it for once and always! When there is hope there is happiness :) and I am still hopeful!

InshaAllah good things come to those who wait - I gotta wait!

Day 06 — Whatever tickles your fancy

2010-08-08T00:42:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 Days Challenge

Yes it tickles my fancy and fantasy both :P I just can't wait for marriage and then my honeymoon for life :D

Day 05 — Your favorite quote

2010-08-07T00:15:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 days challenge.

And again the tough one.

In such a long life how could I have just one favorite quote? Ok maybe I could limit this to the favorite quote at this moment :P Sorry but I can't do favoritism :P

'Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom

Thomas Jefferson said so :)

and I believe so!!!

And this day and age many have weird interpretations of it - if you have one let me know.

Day 04 — Your favorite book

2010-08-06T23:53:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 day challenge.

And so the big moment for the book - I have so many favorites when it comes to books. Every one of the reads has impacted my life in a way that I just cant get over em. I will not tell you my most favorite but surely enlighten you about the ones I hold really dear to me.

Day 03 — Your favorite television program

2010-08-05T23:36:00.000-07:00

Continued from 30 day challenge

This is the most easiest one to guess. Though they are almost wrapping up and I havent had a chance to see the 7th season but even then this is the show I couldn't ever miss - not for anything - I followed closely till Season 6 and that is till when it all mattered :)

Do give it a watch if you haven't - you'll love it! I watch it because of Haley and Nathan :D

Yes it is ONE TREE HILL :D

and the favorite people in the whole series are:

Nathan and Haley James Scott :D

If they hadn't stayed together till the end I would have given up on this series ages ago :) But thank you writers :P

Day 02 — Your favorite movie

2010-08-04T23:20:00.000-07:00

Continuing the 30 days Challenge

This surely is a tempting one. I don't get swept off by movies just like that. I have very weird taste of liking. What no one likes I end up liking all the more :P

Nights in Rodanthe is my most favorite - I just can't overlook the emotions I felt when I was watching that movie. It bought me to life in a way. The dialogues or quotes whatever you call it are totally going to sweep you off if you have the heart.

Paul to Adrienne : “I’m sorry if that made you uncomfortable but this weekend…It’s like something i didn’t know existed, I mean, it’s been a dream. YOU’VE BEEN A DREAM“

♥

Adrienne to Paul : ” You know, when i got up this morning I told myself I wasn’t going to cry again. I told myself that I’d be strong and happy , so that you would remember me that way but when i heard the shower come on, it just hit me that when i wake up tomorrow YOU’RE NOT GOING TO BE HERE“.

♥

Paul to Adrienne : ” When i sleep i dream of you and when i wake I long to hold you in my arms. If anything, our time apart has only made me more certain that I want to spend my nights by your side AND MY DAYS WITH YOUR HEART“.

♥

“The greater the love, the greater the tragedy when it’s over. Those two elements always go together.”

♥

Paul to Adrienne: We all make choices, Adrienne. You chose that life, you chose that man. Do you even remember who you really are anymore?

So there you have my favorite movie and the lines from it :)

Day 01 — Your favorite song

2010-08-03T23:11:00.000-07:00

I love the idea of challenges - it helps one cover everything about one's self which posts rarely can. So through these we could get to know one another no? :)

So are you with me on this? on a 30 day challenge?

"Breathless" by "The Corrs"

Go on, go on, leave me breathless
Come on...

The daylight's fading slowly
but time with you is standing still
I'm waiting for you only
The slightest touch and I'll feel weak

I cannot lie
From you I cannot hide
I'm losing the will to try
Can't hide it (can't hide it)
Can't fight it (can't fight it)
So...

Go on, go on, come on leave me breathless
Tempt me, tease me until I can't deny this
loving feeling, make me long for your kiss
Go on, go on
Yeah, come on...

And if there's no tomorrow
And all we have is here and now
I'm happy just to have you
You're all the love I need somehow

It's like a dream
Although I'm not asleep
I never want to wake up
Don't lose it (don't lose it)
Don't leave me (don't leave me)

Go on, go on, come on leave me breathless
Tempt me, tease me until I can't deny this
loving feeling, make me long for your kiss
Go on, go on
Yeah, come on...

And I can't lie
From you I cannot hide
I've lost my will to try
Can't hide it (can't hide it)
Can't fight it (can't fight it)
So...

Go on, go on, come on leave me breathless
Tempt me, tease me until I can't deny this
loving feeling, make me long for your kiss
Go on, go on
Yeah, come on...

Go on, go on, come on leave me breathless (leave me breathless)
Go on, go on, come on leave me breathless (leave me breathless)
Go on, go on, come on leave me breathless (leave me breathless)
Go on, go on

30 days challenge

2010-08-02T22:59:00.000-07:00

I am getting good with these challenges. So I stole this from "Snapshots of Life".

Here’s the list. It’s a new month and something new should happen on this sleepy blog of mine :) Hope you have fun with me :)

I am changing some points just to make it fit into my comfort zone. You could do it too!

Day 01 — Your favorite song

Day 02 — Your favorite movie

Day 03 — Your favorite television program

Day 04 — Your favorite book

Day 05 — Your favorite quote

Day 06 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Day 07 — A photo that makes you happy

Day 08 — A photo that makes you angry/sad

Day 09 — A photo you took

Day 10 — A photo you just can't help sighing at

Day 11 — A photo that makes you drool

Day 12 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Day 13 — A fictional book

Day 14 — A non-fictional book

Day 15 — A fanfic

Day 16 — A song that makes you cry (or nearly)

Day 17 — An art piece (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.)

Day 18 — Designer that leaves you oohhh lala

Day 19 — A talent of yours

Day 20 — A hobby of yours

Day 21 — A recipe

Day 22 — A website

Day 23 — A YouTube video

Day 24 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Day 25 — What are you waiting for

Day 26 — Describe your week

Day 27 — Your essence is

Day 28 — Your favorite place to shop

Day 29 — Hopes, dreams and plans for 2010

Day 30 — A lovely color but ...

Jiggin with Jagger

2010-07-28T01:04:00.000-07:00

Today we picked Mick Jagger. Here's Wednesday Wickedness!

1. “A good thing never ends.” Have you ever had a good thing in your life that never ended?

With God's Grace I still have me and my family together and that is the best thing in life to date for always (InshaALLAH)

2. “I got nasty habits, I take tea at three.” Do you have an nasty habits?

Yes I do, I really get my emotions to my head and that makes my brain cease logic - which then gets me into trouble!

3. “I'd rather be dead than to be singing Satisfaction at 45.” He obviously changed his mind. What is something that you still do that you thought you' outgrow?

I am as stubborn as a kid when it comes to pleading for something I need from parents or elders. I don't give up until I have it and that really is a turn off!

4. “Lose your dreams and lose your mind.” Have you lost any of your dreams as time went by?

I hold to my dreams like my breaths.

5. “I haven't had time to return to the scene because I never left it.” As you've grown older, what ways are you still act and think the way you did as when you were younger?

I still think Fairy Tales are Life Stories - they teach us more than happy endings !

6. “Patriotism is something that fades when the war starts.” How do you react to this quote?

Patriotism never fades, only becomes challenged in different times and situations.

7. “The past is a great place and I don't want to erase it or regret it, but I don't want to be its prisoner either.” Is there a person in your life who still treats you as the same person to when your were younger? Do you like it?

My dad does that. He is always treating me like a little girl who will lose her way if I don't hold on to his hand and seek his direction. I have to tell him all the time to trust me with my decisions!

8. “It's all right letting yourself go, as long as you pull yourself back.” Have you let yourself go in any aspect of your life?

Yes I have and I cannot tell you why or when but then I pulled myself back and out of it :)

9. “My mother has always been unhappy with what I do. She would rather I do something nicer, like being a brick layer.” How do you parents feel about what you do?

They are happy about what I do, always encourage me to test my limits in my profession and career.

10. “Anarchy is the only slight glimmer of hope.” How would you categorize your political point of view?

I am politically challenged ;)

Playing with ELLEN

2010-07-21T22:12:00.000-07:00

1. "I was coming home from kindergarten--well they told me it was kindergarten. I found out later I had been working in a factory for ten years. It's good for a kid to know how to make gloves." How old were you when you started working and what was your first job?

I was 21 and my first job was as a school librarian (for grade 1-3). It was fun.

2. "My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty. She's ninety-seven now, and we don't know where the hell she is." Tell us about your grandparents.

I don't have grand-dads anymore but they were gems. My grand mommys are there and I thank God that they are, life could be so miracle less without their presence :)

3. "Procrastination isn't the problem, it's the solution. So procrastinate now, don't put it off." Do you procrastinate or are you on top of the situations?

I am human so I do procrastination when I am lazy and am on the top of things when enthusiastic :)

4. "Sometimes you can't see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others." What would others say about you?

I wish I knew - but probably they'll say I am vain.

5. "The only thing that scares me more than space aliens is the idea that there aren't any space aliens. We can't be the best that creation has to offer. I pray we're not all there is. If so, we're in big trouble" Do you believe in life on other planets?

Not human life at least.

6. "I'm a godmother, that's a great thing to be, a godmother. She calls me god for short, that's cute, I taught her that." Do you have a godchild?

NOPES!

7. "I don't understand the sizes anymore. There's a size zero, which I didn't even know that they had. It must stand for: 'Ohhh my God, you're thin.'" When was the last time that you were called too thin?

I was never too thin - just healthy enough.

8. "I have the worst memory ever so no matter who comes up to me - they're just, like, 'I can't believe you don't remember me!" I'm like, 'Oh Dad I'm sorry!'" Who was the last person that you should have recognized but didn't?

No one - :P

9. "I gotta work out. I keep saying it all the time. I keep saying I gotta start working out. It's been about two months since I've worked out. And I just don't have the time. Which uh..is odd. Because I have the time to go out to dinner. And uh..and watch tv. And get a bone density test. And uh.. try to figure out what my phone number spells in words." Do you work out? Have you ever joined a gym and quit almost immediately?

I have and had results from it. Now I do it at home.

10. 'We use 10 percent of our brains. Imagine how much we could accomplish if we used the other 60 percent."
Do you feel that you utilize all your intelligence in every situation?

My heart has the power to decide too.

Guage with George

2010-07-14T22:56:00.000-07:00

1. "But why shouldn't I speak out? Don't you speak out in this country?"
Do you speak out as often as you should?

All the time - every time, unless I have to avoid causing brutal pain!

2. "I am tough. Sometimes I'm unreasonable. I have to catch myself every once in a while."
Are you ever tough and unreasonable?

My hormones are major fluctuating - yes I am tough some times and unreasonable too all the time.

3. "I haven't always done a good job, and I haven't always been successful - but I know that I have tried."
Do you believe that sometimes you learn more from a failure than a success?

Failure is a better experience than success - with failure comes the ability, with success comes achievement! both valid in their state.

4. "Winning is the most important thing in my life, after breathing. Breathing first, winning next."
Do you feel that you always have to win?

Hahaha yes if I want to believe - I have - but then there are the losses too!

5. "It is unbelievable to me that the highest-paid team in baseball would start the season in such a deep funk.”
Do you think money always buys greatness?

Ofcourse it does. Hollywood says it all :P

6. "I take my last phone call at home at about 11pm."
What time is too late to call you?

My best friends can call me anytime. Others just never!

7. "Don't talk to me about aesthetics or tradition. Talk to me about what sells and what's good right now."
Do you think tradition matters?

Yes they do. They shape me as I am today.

8. "And what the American people like is to think the underdog still has a chance."
Do you tend to root for the underdog?

huh whaa!

9. "I don't think I ever could exceed my father's successes. He was a completely satisfied man, he knew what he wanted to accomplish and he accomplished it. I did do a lot, though, to try to please him."
Do you ever feel that you want to exceed your parents successes?

There is one expectation left to fulfill and that is get married!

10. "I'm really 95 percent Mr. Rogers, and only 5 percent Oscar the Grouch."
In terms of cartoon characters, who are you like?

Garfield ;)

Go Your Own Way

2010-07-11T00:30:00.000-07:00

1. When was the last time you were told to go your own way?

My heart tells me to do that after every 5 mins.

2. What one experience has strengthened your character the most so far?

My Divorce, from years ago.

3. What's your favorite thing to do on a rainy day?

To get Wet and Wild!

4. How long can you go without your cell phone?

Probably forever!

5. Do you wish you were somewhere else right now?

Yes, in the arms of a husband - dozed off on a Sunday!

6. Of all the people you've ever known, who have you most feared?

I haven't feared humans. But I do admit I was a little scared of my ex-husband's temper.

7. Do people tell you that you look your age?

Some say I look older, some say I look younger - no one says I look my age.

8. Your ex shows up randomly at your house, what do you say?

I say nothing - just bang the door on his face :)

9. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?

No everyone. Yes there are exceptions but EVERYONE is just too random!

Pitter Patter with Pattinson

2010-07-07T09:55:00.000-07:00

1. "I don't really see the point in washing your hair. If you don't care if your hair's clean or not then why would you wash it?"
How often do you wash your hair?
Once in two days!

2. "I take way too long to get dressed, like way too long. But only for things like shows or if I have to do public appearances. Like, I’m ridiculous, I’ll keep getting changed and getting changed and then I’ll just put on the same thing I wore the day before."
Do you take longer to dress for a special event?
Yes Indeed! but for all Occasions!

3. "My dad's a car dealer, but I grew up in London, so I always say I don't drive…I get driven. I got a driving lesson in Oregon, and then I bought a car in L.A. and I basically learned how to drive by people honking at me. I'm terrible at driving."
Are you a good driver?
Who wants to drive went you have the pleasure of being driven around in comfort!

4. "I don't spend any money. The only thing I've really bought is my car, which cost $1,500 and keeps exploding. It would be nice to buy a house for my parents, but at the same time my parents are so comfortable where they live; they would probably just feel like it was a burden. I wear the same clothes every day and the only thing I used to splurge on was DVDs."
If you had his money, what would be the first thing you spent it on?
Some terrific shoe and bag shopping!

5. "I aspire to be Jack Nicholson. I love every single mannerism. I used to try and be him in virtually everything I did, I don't know why. I watched One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest when I was about 13, and I dressed like him. I tried to do his accent. I did everything like him. I think it's kind of stuck with me."
Who is your favorite actor?
Leonardo diCaprio is at the time being someone who can act and take your heart away!

6. "Someone stole my shoelaces once from my shoes. I still wear them and never put laces in them - they're like my trademark shoes now!"
Have you ever changed your appearance because of a random happenstance?
Nopes - not ever so random!

7. "I never really considered myself attractive. I was always kind of gangly in school."
Do you consider yourself attractive?
Yes I do, very much!

8. "I definitely want to record an album, direct a film and start my own religion. I definitely wouldn’t have to pay taxes anymore.”
If you started your own religion, what would it be like?
I don't have to, I am happy with mine.

9. "I do bear some similarities in the sense that I’m not good at romance. I also think I lack basic finesse when it comes to women. I give up too easily even if I’m very attracted to someone."
Have you ever given up too easily in the game of love?
Nopes. It always has been till the very end!

10. " I don’t want to disappoint girls who might think I’m very cool and smooth, which I’m not, I’m afraid. I’m still quite shy, although that seems to be something of an attraction for women."
Are you, or have you ever been attracted to shy people?
Can't recall!

The Eighty Meme, Part Two

2010-07-03T13:30:00.000-07:00

Cheers to all of us thieves!

23. Are your days fast-paced?
Very! Not a single moment stops to breathe

24. What did you do last night?
I made plans for today and I wrapped em up!

25. Do you use sarcasm?
A LOTTTTTTTTTTTT!

26. How old will you be turning on your next birthday?
28

27. Are you picky about spelling and grammar?
VERY - my profession is COPYWRITING!

28. Do you get along better with the same sex or the opposite sex?
These days it is the same sex

29. Do you watch the news?
Hardly - I get the updates via Twitter

30. How did you get one of your scars?
Thanks to Pimples!

31. Who was the last person to make you mad?
Someone in the virtual world

32. What is the last big thing you purchased?
My New Hair! :P and I mean the new look

33. Who would you want to be tied to for 24 hours?
ohhh that would be a prospect life partner :D so that we get to know each other

34. What is a rumour someone has spread about you?
Oh the rumor about me and my ex best friend having an affair once upon a time!

35. What would you do if you were stuck in an elevator?
Scream, shout n bang!

36. T or F: All’s fair in love and war?
True!

37. Do you know how to use some words correctly, but not know the meaning?
Yes :D happens all the time

38. Do you know which US states don’t use Daylight Savings Time?
Nope!

39. Do you want a bright yellow ‘06 mustang?
NOPE!

40. What’s something you’ve always wanted?
A Husband please

41. Would you rather swim in the ocean or a lake?
Ocean is fine!

42. Do you wear a lot of black?
Nopes - I dont at all!

43. Describe your hair:
It is great :D (thank you Loreal Relaxing and thank you GOD)

44. Where is/are your best friend(s)?
They are married!

Doing What I should Not!

2010-07-02T02:56:00.000-07:00

Tagged by the lovely twin - Scribbling Gal

I am lucky to be part of a star sign that gives me 12 faces to wear and the pretty part is that I can be equally masculine or feminine, whichever I want to choose (or give credit to my planet and sun and moon placements).

The sun in my star gives me my bossiness, strength, or "bitchiness", as well as its generosity, sexiness, and playfulness. I can be really bossy and dictate my terms well when I have to. Being a woman, I m required to be soft and subtle but no one told me how to and when, so I make my own rules of mood.

1. I am very fond of luxury cars, SUVs drive me insane. Yes as much as a man would like to have a sexy car, a girl does to and that girl is me. I love Audi 100 and it has been the only love since 1995. Anything sleek and versatile counts as sexy for me (in terms of car) and sometimes Honda Accord hits there too. BMW yes, Mercedes NO!

2. When I go to shop, I have something to get that I need. I hate to window shop and I can’t get over the fact that just eyeing things and not buying it is means of anything wise. When I need something, I go to the specific shop I get it from and head right back. No time wasting. Hence my girl friends never wanna shop with me.

3. I am more driven by career than I am by home. I like to keep my hope clean and in place but that is like the place I return to after a hard day of work. Little participation then comes from me in terms of making something; I’ll have anything that is cooked and drink whatever is there. Too lazy once I am out of office wear!

4. I am rebellious. But in no way to the extreme. I stand by what I say and promise and that makes me a woman of my word. I deft that there is only a ‘man of his word’… truly you will agree with me if you know me at all.

5. I like tech gadgets. Recently purchased a Blackberry, which says much does it not? But the condition is that it needs to be sexy ;) I am all about the sexy attribute when I have to buy gadgets of cars. Though I m yet to buy one for myself.

6. When I am at home, I am in my track pants and dad’s t-shirt. The girl’s t-shirt is a bit too skimpy and I hate to be uncomfortable when I am at home or actually anytime at home – body clinging is not my type.

7. I am crazy about football and not many know that. It isn’t about the 100s of men running around in shorts but the game actually. It gets my hormones pumping right!

8. I like to exert more and in the process sweat more. It is weird for girls to sweat and then talk about it but genuinely I like it – it tells me I gotta rid of the acids from within me.

9. I am more of ‘I can do it myself’ person. Less dependant on anyone than myself to do my own thing. Relying on people just hasn’t paid off or probably I want to stay in charge always. So I do my own stuff.

10. I can imagine me riding a white horse in a green field. As a girl yes but I think girls don’t like to ride much :P or they do ;) whichever the case I would love to ride a horse one day.

11. I get turned on by vision. Yes it doesn’t necessarily have to speak to me (because it spoils the image), the way it looks sometimes is enough and turning on. I can live with it.

12. Rock music is my preferred music. I love Aerosmith, Nickelback, Linkin Park, 3 Doors Down and many of the sorts.

13. Unlike the many dry bossy girls, I have my fun and social side. When I am out there, I can talk and make conversation like one of the boys… and I think I tick off a lot of aunties.

So now I tag you – if you are a guy reading this – you know you have to state the female side of you and that which others think you shouldn’t do.

If you are a girl, you gotta tell me what is that you do that your kind doesn’t do.

Thank you Scribbling Gal for tagging me again :) I love these little mind exercises you give me!

No Goo goo with Ga ga

2010-06-30T10:02:00.000-07:00

1. "Peace. it does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart."

Do you keep your cool no matter what is going on around you?

Lately I have been PMSing way too much and that makes me impatient, hence I lose my cool instantly!

2. "Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."
Do you feel that career should be more important than your love life?

Absolutely - Something should be there when love dies (which happens eventually)

3. "You have to be unique, and different, and shine in your own way."
In what way(s) do you feel that you are unique?

I am me and there is no one like me - that's it!

4. "I want women -- and men -- to feel empowered by a deeper and more psychotic part of themselves. The part they're always trying desperately to hide. I want that to become something that they cherish."
Do you feel that there is a part of you that you need to hide from most people?

Yes - people are hypocrites and very mean. They like to dress up and walk to parties with others, but watch as they get drunk and wasted and then make headlines about it! (p.s. this has nothing to do with my personal experience, just metaphorically speaking)

5. "Love is like a brick. You can build a house, or you can sink a dead body."
Have you ever held on to a relationship even though you truly knew it was already over?

Yes and wasted years over it - truly it was a learning experience I'll never forget!

6. "Sometimes in life you don't always feel like a winner, but that doesn't mean you're not a winner, you want to be like yourself."
Would your friends say that you are a winner in this game of life?

Lol! ask my friends, probably they'll know this one better!

7. "A glamorous life is quite different to a life of luxury. I don’t need luxury. For years, I was practically broke but I was still very vain and glamorous. And I still am."
Can you tell us about a time when you were broke and yet still happy?

Right now :D I am totally broke and no kidding!

8. "I’m single right now and I’ve chosen to be single because I don’t have the time to get to know anybody. So it’s okay not to have sex, it’s okay to get to know people. I’m celibate. Celibacy’s fine."
Do you think staying celibate between relationships important?

Very- always!

9. "Fight and push harder for what you believe in, you'd be surprised, you are much stronger than you think."
Tell us about an incident where you were stronger than you thought you were.

My divorce!

10. "I lie in bed and try to pray and breathe. I have a very overactive mind. I’m the sort of person who’d never take medication to calm myself. It’s maddening. But I love what comes out."
Do you feel that you always have the ability to calm yourself?

I am the only one who has it and then I turn to God!

The Eighty Meme, Part One

2010-06-26T22:26:00.000-07:00

Cheers to all of us thieves!

1. What curse word do you use the most?
Bullshit

2. Do you own an iPod?
Nopes but it is on my list now

3. What person do you talk to on the phone the most?
My best friend from university - Amy!

4. Do you still remember the first person you kissed?
Yes - I haven't kissed a lot of randomness so I know!

5. Do you remember where you were on 11/9/01?
Yes I was at home watching it on CNN

6. What was the last movie you watched?
I watchedddddddddddd ... been ages so no clue!

7. Has anyone ever called you lazy?
Yes everyone and me!

8. Do you ever take medication to help you fall asleep?
Nopes I have plenty of that come to me naturally :P

9. Has anyone told you a secret this week?
About themselves? I don't recall if this week or the week before but yes a blogger friend did.

10. What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?
The first word they say

11. What are you looking forward to?
For love to find me

12. Do you own any band t-shirts?
Adidas

13. What will you be doing in one hour?
I will probably have breakfast

14. Is anyone in love with you?
lol - Don't know because all of them just love me and are not even close to 'in love' with me

15. Last time you cried?
Day before yesterday when I spoke to Allah

16. Are you on a desktop computer or a laptop?
Desktop!

17. Are you currently wanting any piercings or tattoos?
I want an extra one in my ear but it hurts so having double thoughts

18. Would you ever date anyone covered in tattoos?
NOOOOO NEVERRRRRRR

19. What were you doing before this?
Sleeping

20. When is the last time you slept on the floor?
hmmm not since my bed arrived!

21. How many hours of sleep do you need to function?
6-7

22. Do you eat breakfast daily?
Yes- 9 out of 10 times

Going to the Dogs

2010-06-25T00:58:00.000-07:00

1. Besides working a full time job during the week, gym at a minimum of 3 times a week, I also work a part time job on the weekends at a doggie daycare/kennel (Love it). It might seem busy however I do make time for my family, friends and my dog - they are the most important.

I have no idea where in that are you going to fit me and you+me!

2. Are you the one?

No - it is Marilyn Monroe! too bad you'd have to die to be with her!

3. not into game players cheaters or being lied to.

That is kinda nice of you to reveal your negative assets!

4. Simply is the best of me, sincere, caring, conservative person.

Simply Complicated you mean!

5. I am looking a nice person who is willing to go out on weekends or stay in.

How about get a dog?

6. Looking for an honest one.

One and Honest? Goodluck searching the haystack of honesty!

7. I must have someone who is willing to accept me for the way I am and not someone who wants to morph me into that perfect someone, cuz let's face it-the perfect someone does not exist.

Let's face it you are way too far and scared from trying to be perfect - next please!

8. I will pretty much eat anything.

A roasted roach too?

9. I don't like alcoholics.

How many have you been with to know that you dont like em?

10. I am outgoing,funny,caring,loving and show my feelings through physical touches so get used to this and if its a problem - OH WELL! Deal with it!

You've got enough to deal with in your head and life - you just don't seem accomodating! Peace!

Welcome to Summertime 2010!

2010-06-24T01:24:00.000-07:00

Doing Thursday Thunks the FIRST TIME EVER!

1. It became officially summer on Monday. What's your favorite part of winter?

Sorry but summer has been in my country since March and I am not excited about recalls of the winter – it passed too quick.

2. What was your worst summer vacation ever?

The summer of … no recalls :P

3. Kimber's husband just got the dream job that he's hoped for. So a big shout out to her and Anthony! Tell us about the best job that you ever had.

I am in my best job. Just waiting to get paid more than the boss’s secretary. Sucks when you know she isn’t doing anything and you do everything and still don’t get more.

4. Who is probably talking a load of crap about you right now?

haha – the world doesn’t revolve around me :D thank GOD!

5. An alien appears and offers you the opportunity to repeat one year of your life. You will still know everything that you know now. He explains that no matter what you do differently, when you are returned to the present nothing will have changed. What year would you pick and why?

How about just rewindddddddd to the time when my ex best friend didn’t meet the girl he married and met me instead!

6. Name three things you have on you at all times. Explain why.

I have my bracelet, which looks nice with every outfit I wear.
I have my hair clip to keep my bangs in place.
And my gold earrings which are neutral to all attires.

7. When was the last time you wrote a letter to someone on paper and mailed it?

In 2007 August.

8. If you could have everyone in the blogosphere read just one of your posts, which post would you pick and why?

I can’t pick and choose, but I think the wife’s resume they’d find interesting.

9. I recently read that the music industry continues to decline at an alarming rate. In the last year it said the sales of Michael Jackson's and The Beatles' music are the only artists who sales continue to climb. The article stated that the two are holding up the industry. Have you bought a CD or mp3 of either artist recently?

I don’t but any anymore. I download em.

10. What radio ad right now do you find so annoying that you'd rather have a tooth drilled than hear it again?

Who listens to radio?

11. Berleen walks into a bar on a hot Minnesota day. At the bar sits a priest, a rabbi and a minister. A ten foot duck walks into the bar right after Berleen. What drink do you think Berleen orders?

Beer

12. There is a knock on your door. It can be anyone in the world. Who would you want it to be?

My future with open arms.

13. What would be the worst entertainment or sporting that you could be forced to watch?

Rugby – pathetic and boring.

Heating with Heather

2010-06-23T01:15:00.000-07:00

1. "With a parent, it's always guilt. You want to be there, but you kind of also want to be here." Tell us about a time where you had to be selfish with your time, and felt guilty about it (whether it was time taken from your children or a S/O).

No recalls absolutely. Probably when I had to spend an entire day at the salon, skipping work and family, getting pampering. Does that count?

2. "Sex appeal is not on purpose." Do you feel that you can create more sex appeal or that it's just a given?

I don’t think on those lines. I have an appeal of a magnetic and I think that is enough to pull no?

3. "One man is not enough." Has there ever been a time when monogamy seemed difficult?

hell no!

4. "I think I've always been good so God wouldn't strike me dead." Do your religious beliefs really influence your behavior?

My beliefs have made me who I am today and what I do is entirely based on my moral understanding.

5. "You just have to forgive them for being men." Do you feel there are some things in a S/O that you can't change because of their sex?

Change is permanent. It happens but over time. And in everyone it happens.

6. "When I look in the mirror I see the girl I was when I was growing up, with braces, crooked teeth, a baby face and a skinny body." Do you see a younger less secure person when you gaze in the mirror?

No, and oldie who needs to plan her life accordingly.

7. “I was a pregnant vixen.” If you have ever been pregnant, or have been with a woman who was, how did effect your sex life?

No clue about that.

8. “Everything needs to be worked on...” What would you like to work on to become a better person?

My ability to tolerate and forget. I have this darn good memory and I am not pleased with it usually.

9. "From an early age, I was aware of what America meant, and how the Marines at Camp Pendleton were ready to defend us at a moment's notice. I also remember what fabulous bodies those troops had." When did you think that you understood the sacrifices that people in the military make on behalf of their country?

After I started reading the history of my country and writing my version of it with heart and soul. But it still remains that I am patriotically challenged.

10. "The bigger the better. Do I dare say that!?" In your experience, is there truth here?

No. Happiness Comes in Small Packages.

Truce with Bruce

2010-06-16T05:29:00.000-07:00

1. “When it comes to luck, you make your own.”
Do you believe you have that type of control over your luck?

Absolutely NOT

2. “You've got to learn to live with what you can't rise above.”
What is something you have had difficulty rising above?

My attachment with those non-existent in my life now!

3. “Poor men wanna be rich, rich men wanna be kings, and a king ain’t satisfied till he rules everything.”
Would you want to be rich?

Who wouldn't? Money talks baby!

4. “The best music is essentially there to provide you something to face the world with.”
Tell us about a song that helps you "face the world."

Gotta be Somebody by Nickelback

5. “In America everything's about who's number one today.”
Have you ever been a fan of someone you thought would last but turned out to be a flash in the pan?

Nopes ... I always know who'll hit it big ;)

6. “Is a dream a lie if it don't come true, or is it something worse?”
Has any dream of yours come true?

Yes, I am with a job that I love.

7. “Our American government has strayed too far from American values. It is time to move forward. The country we carry in our hearts is waiting.”
What would you change if you became the president?

I would change people.

8. "Yeah, I had gay friends. The first thing I realized was that everybody's different, and it becomes obvious that all of the gay stereotypes are ridiculous."
How do you feel about gay rights?

Absurd and unnecessary!

9. " It's a sad man my friend who's living in his own skin and can't stand the company."
Have you ever been disappointed in yourself?

Many times.

10. "The best music is essentially there to provide you something to face the world with."
What's your favorite type of music? What's your favorite band?

I like to have beats in my music, gives my heart a pump!

Let's get Frank, Frank!

2010-06-09T09:05:00.000-07:00

1. “I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.”
How often do you drink alcohol?
NEVER EVER!

2. “The best revenge is massive success.”
Have you ever gloated or wanted to over success?
YOU MEAN OVER SUCCEED ... NO! I JUST WANNA SUCCEED!

3. “You gotta love livin', baby, 'cause dyin' is a pain in the [butt].”
What do enjoy most about your life?
MY JOB IS FANTASTIC - IT KEEPS ME SANE.

4. “I'm not one of those complicated, mixed-up cats. I'm not looking for the secret to life.... I just go on from day to day, taking what comes.”
Do you ever overthink a situation in your life?
YES - WHEN THE HELL AM I TO WED!

5. “I would like to be remembered as a man who had a wonderful time living life, a man who had good friends, fine family - and I don't think I could ask for anything more than that, actually.”
Tell us about your best friend.
WHEN HE WAS THERE I NEEDED NO BODY ELSE IN THE WORLD.

6. “I like intelligent women. When you go out, it shouldn't be a staring contest.”
How important is intelligence when picking (or having picked) a s/o to you?
VERY IMPORTANT! WITHOUT HIS WIT AND INTELLIGENCE WE WOULDN't LAST AT ALL.

7. “I drink to the confusion of our enemies.”
What's the closest situation that you've had to dealing with an enemy?
SO CLOSE THAT SHE COULD STAB ME but I ESCAPED!

8. “Orange is the happiest color.”
What's your favorite color?
PEACH AND PINK!

9. “Dare to wear the foolish clown face.”
Are you ever a clown?
I AM! WHEN I AM HIGH!

10. “Don't get even, get mad.”
Have you ever tried getting even?
NO. FOR ME SILENCE IS THE BEST REVENGE!

On this day, God wants you to know…

2010-06-03T03:04:00.000-07:00

… that there is no such thing as conditional love. Love is either unconditional or it’s no love. You might like someone conditional on their personality or behavior or circumstances. But love accepts no boundaries. So never say ‘I love you because’, for love has no cause, love comes from God.

The Dating Profiles Meme: So Little to Ask

2010-05-29T23:12:00.001-07:00

1. A relationship that is rooted in God, commitment, unconditional love, unconditional respect, loyalty, mutual appreciation, mutual understanding, great communication, honesty, openness, accountability, faithfulness, compromise, mutual support, sharing, partnership, lots of fun, adventure, romance and great depths of intimacy is so little to ask for I think.

Whao the translation of your little was highly drowning. One question how do you define little? because I think we'll not agree there

2. I don't usually like risks but becoming a single parent has shown me that I can be empowered to do things I would not have done in the past.

What is so empowering about being a single parent? If you couldn't do it while you were single then it is a figment of your imagination!

3. I am a full time college student, going on my fifth year.

Kool! so from there you plan to where?

4. I enjoy walking the bike paths when weather is nice.

Alone? and you wanna date? blah!

5. I am successful, intelligent, motivated and interested in finding some companionship. I "live in the moment".

hahaha! too good you are with words - I'd like to see you live in the moment!

6. I will try to explain about my life, pesonality and what i think would be a good match however, i'm not one who likes talking about myself.

hohohohoho you dont? and you also know that what we say seldom applies to the real us - it is actually the opposite

7. We must be good example in our society and you must be the one I will love forever because divorce is not an option for me again and once i decide to fall in love with someone, I will love with all i am and all i had.

Agreed but what if your partner is the opposite? what you want wont keep the relationship afloat would it?

8. I want to be able to go and talk with you if i am down or not in a good mood. That is what relationships are all about. Isnt it?

No that isn't relationship that is conversation

9. My ideal match is someone who has a zest for life,someone who can have laugh and have fun but, and at the same time, they most be responsible. Or at least somewhat, ya know?

too much you ask for in too little a life

10. My imagination helps me to perceive the world. Desire to perceive the world, desire to create and desire to love - these are constituents of my life.

and you live there? have you found a match there? why in the world are you speaking here and looking here?

No Well when Cowell

2010-05-26T10:33:00.000-07:00

1. “If your lifeguard duties were as good as your singing, a lot of people would be drowning.” How well do you swim?

Swim? ha... I don't swim I make others swim ;)

2. “I think he knows how to articulate something that people are entertained by and still be true to the message he's trying to send, ... very aware of himself.” How self aware do you think you are?

I am pretty self aware to the extent that I know I have a tendency to have my foot in my mouth on many occasions

3. “If you've got a big mouth and you're controversial, you're going to get attention.” Who has a big mouth that you like?

I hate big mouths - they make me think that something went wrong when they were being delivered

4. “I think you have to judge everything based on your personal taste. And if that means being critical, so be it. I hate political correctness. I absolutely loathe it.” Do you believe in political correctness?

hahaha the absurdity of this correctness yes!

5. “I find Paula patronizing. It's as simple as that. Paula is more damaging than I am to these contestants because a lot of people just shouldn't be singing for a living.” Do you ever patronize people?

to an extent but never over the top. I am patriotically challenged by all means

6. “Not everybody is perfect, and I don't think we should be looking for perfect people.” Do you or someone you know strive constantly to be perfect?

I do. Because I live by going there where I see, falling short of no problem but not trying has all problems

7. “I never want to hear that song again. I cannot stand it. I'm allergic to it.” What song are you totally sick of and why?

I am sick of no song to dat. My choice of songs can always be played and replayed. I have good taste which never goes out of style

8. “I like the fact that they're cocky now from the age of four.” How old were you when you got cocky? What changed to make you so?

huh what is that?

9. “And there's more open hostility among them because the competition is so intense.” When you compete with someone, have you ever gotten hostile?

I have but in words. Some people know how to tick me off really!

10. “Why are you having a normal conversation with him? This is a dairy farmer dressed as a woman.” Do you talk differently to someone because of the way that they are dressed?

hehehe yea - I try to because those with their heads in their butts hardly ever understand me

Cheers to Wednesday Wickedness

Sunday Stealing: The Voice Post Meme

2010-05-22T11:10:00.000-07:00

1) What's your middle name?

Divine ;)

2) How old are you?

The age where I should have had a kid at least

3) Where are you from? Are you living there right now?

I am from a place on the globe which you may not know of because we arent a super power and yes I am still there

4) Is it cold where you are?

hahahahaha! please if 41 degrees is cold then so it is

5) What's the time?

The time to go dance in my shower!

6) What are you wearing?

a few extra pounds which I wanna strip off

7) What was the last thing you listened to?

my friend telling me 'that i have the tendency to attract lunatics'

8) What was the last thing you ate?

some peas from my nutty Chinese dish

9) What was the last thing you watched on TV?

what is there to watch I listen to TV!

10) What's your favorite tv show? Why?

My life is my favorite TV show. Every episode I look forward to

11) Quick! Find a book, or something with text on it! Flip to a random page and post the second paragraph's first sentence.

do I look crazy to you?

12) What was the last movie you saw? How was it?

a comedy movie but why should u wanna know, you dont have a sense of humor!

13) Do YOU think you have an accent? Where do people in your country do people speak with strong accents?

yes I do, my accent which isn't any country based :)

The Full Course Meal

2010-05-07T12:54:00.000-07:00

1. I am not a side dish--i am the full course meal!!!

Fine I won't savor you like I savor my fries and dip, you'll be treated like a chicken torn apart! is that good enough?

2. I do not want the kind of love I can live with, I want the kind of love I can’t live without.

How are you a better judge of the kind of love you are about to get? I mean what if the kind of love which you can't live without isn't what you are gonna live with? do i make sense?

3. I love to be outdoors doing things from hunting to biking to riding a motorcycle to walking on a hillside to swimming in a pond to watching a polo match.

So you are all about going to bed anywhere then? shame on you for being so out loud about it! gross!

4. I believe if you meet someone on a date and you are not attracted to each other then there is no point in continuing to date.

Really? Eureka?

5. I have been viewed as a perfectionist, but what I believe in is when you do something, make sure you do it right!!

How about do it right by your definition and then run someone over thinking you did just right? how ridiculous!

6. I am looking for someone who is half as happy to see me as my dogs.

hahahaha... so you want something like a slurp when you come back from a hard day and some drool on your crisp white shirt? is there a cat you'll hire for the laundry?

7. Liars and cheaters will not be tolerated!

Listen you don't make these rules before you are in the game. When you are just on the outskirts, don't jump too high, the forks will plunge in deep!

8. I am in need of some down time.

Is that like a time out? I am sure you could elaborate a little more on that need of yours because it isn't in the hierarchy of human needs

9. I wanna be with someone who is better that the last relationship. The sex was not two good.

You will compare? and what makes you think you were the bad in the sex then? and the not so lasting element in it too?

10. You smile even when soaked on a wet day.

Wow! I am sure Einstein would have had a good laugh over this

p.s. my first time playing - sorry for the bluntness and rudenss :)

A Twist with Swift

2010-05-05T04:49:00.000-07:00

1. "I never want to change so much that people can't recognize me." Do you believe people can truly change?

Oh they always change - but mostly for the worse they do and they find such peace in it

2. "People haven't always been there for me but music always has." Do you have people in your life you could always count on?

I did once and now I don't think I want to count on anyone for xyz reasons

3. "I’m intimidated by the fear of being average." Do you think there is anything wrong with being average?

Not at all. Because no one is average - we all have something which is better than the rest!

4. "Never believe anyone who says you don't deserve what you want." Do you believe you deserve everything you want?

I do believe and hence I ask always

5. " I have to believe in fairy tales and I have to believe in love." Do you believe in fairy tale love?

Yes! and I am yet to make my fairy tale!

6. " I wouldn't want to date a pushover who would let me make all the plans and have all the control." Do you believe in sharing the control in your relationships?

yes. Not everything is one sided and so is power - in some things we all have to have a say

7. "Sometimes [finding new friends] is the best thing about dating. I've met so many friends through guys that I've dated. And now, the guys are gone but the girls are still around." Did you ever make a close friend from someone that you've dated?

No. I dont think that is ever a wise option

8. "But there are a lot of rumors out there that you just have to ignore." Has anyone ever spread something malicious about you?

Oh yes. there have been plenty of rats in my life... wonder why I had to be so popular

9. "I set goals that are just a little bit out of reach, but not totally out of reach." How do you go about setting your goals?

I set goals one day at a time - too far out isnt my kinda thing ever

10. " I remember seeing girls crying in the bathroom every Monday about what they did at a party that weekend. I never wanted to be that girl." Have you ever done something at a party that you've ever regretted?

Nopes. I am always sober :D

Wickedness with Pitt

2010-04-29T12:08:00.000-07:00

1. "I've got a hard time with morals. All I know is what feels right, what's more important to me is being honest about who you are. Morals I get a little hung up on.” Do you ever have a hard time with morals?

Not if I know the difference between the right and the wrong :) It is tricky though because the wrong is always appealing and we find ways to justify but then I am good with it!

2. “Being married means I can [break wind] and eat ice cream in bed.” Do you eat in bed? If yes, what?

Of course I eat in bed. I had my dinner after gyming in bed. Yes the bed is more than just a place to make love.

3. “I phoned my grandparents and my grandfather said 'we saw your movie'. 'Which one?' I said. He shouted 'Betty, what was the name of that movie I didn't like?” What was the last movie you hated and why?

LOL. I don't quite remember bad movies because it is not very often I pick a bad one. Why waste time on bad when I know what good is huh?

4. “We made a plan at school to meet in her garage and kiss. It was like this little business deal. I kissed her and then I ran home.” Did you make 'a plan' the first time you made love or did it just happen?

mmmm It was spontaneous and hence the most miraculous of experiences. We acually felt sacred! at least I did! totally holy!

5. “You must lose everything in order to gain anything.” Have you ever felt that you lost it all? If yes, explain.

Of course I have. After losing so much in so long I am beginning to think I have actually gained the double of weight. And that to lose is such a fatigue!

6. “We did a little training in the beginning, ... But again, these guys aren't supposed to be skilled fighters.” When were you last time that you were in a fight (physical or not)?

I usually avoid fights and the last time I gave a silent treatment is ongoing at the moment!

7. “My week consists ... five days out of the seven I've got at least three cars of paparazzi on me that I've got to either lose or whatever.” Have you ever been stalked?

Hell yes! at this very moment I am being stalked and God knows what the pleasure is but the guy is psychotic and messed up in life! completely!

8. “I mean, that's the modified self-help version of the psychology, I guess.” Do you believe in 'self help' for problems, or do you prefer therapy?

I prefer both. When things get a little out of my hands, I am not shy to ask for help!

9. “Fame is a bitch, man.” Do you agree that fame is lousy or would you love to give it a try? Why?

I have fame, what do you think I have in this virtuality? It is all cool fame :D

10. “I have always been somebody that really wants to be married. And I don't know if that's just so I can do it differently than my parents did and prove marriage does work.” Do you believe in forever, as in 'love forever'?

HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOO I am a person of commitment and hence marriage is a sacred relationship which requires love forever and I am a believer!

The Fandom Meme

2010-04-24T13:50:00.000-07:00

1. The first character I fell in love with: Nathan Scott from One Tree Hill

2. The character I never expected to love as much as I do now: Nathan Scott always and forever!

3. The character I would shag anytime: Leopold from Kate and Leopold

4. The character I'd slap: Lucas Scott from One Tree Hill

5. Who are my 3 favorite characters. Natahn Scott, Haley James Scott and Brook Davis

6. What are my 3 favorite pairings. Nathan and Haley, Kate and Leopold, Harry and Sally

7. Which character I'm most like. I can't judge me as a character, but I can relate to Haley maybe because I love Nathan so much

8. The coolest thing about the canon: canon? what canon?

9. The lamest crappiest thing about the canon: I dunno!

10. My guiltiest pleasure in this fandom: I imagine me with someone like Nathan in hot kisses ;)

11. What story I wish I could read (or art I wish I could see): Wanna see all over Rome!

12. What story I wish I had written/still want to write: A 1000 Splendid Suns :)

I Want to Hold Your Hand

2010-04-23T22:33:00.000-07:00

1. What do you notice about other people's hands?
How smooth they are and how clean the nails are!

2. If someone was nosing around your house, what would you hope they wouldn't see?
Now I can't spill it here as an invite to have someone snoop around :P

3. Do you think that the more stuff you own enhances your life or adds to your burden?
Adds to the burden and so I spring clean often

4. What was the last movie you saw in the theatre?
I saw.... I don't remember... it has been ages! But it was some bollywood flick

5. What do you have under your bed?
my suitcases

6. What do you think your s/o or best friend would say about what makes you unique?
They'd day my ability to be selfless without asking

7. What's your current favorite TV commercial?
The coca cola commercial as always and there is a song commercial from zong!

8. Who do you owe a phone call to?
No one - I owe no such thing to no one!

9. Do you know about my friend's new meme Wednesday Wickedness? Will you give it a try this week just for me? Please? :)
I know it and I tried it :) it is great. Check it out here

Happiness

2010-04-21T03:46:00.001-07:00

You can't wear it
You can't purchase it
You can't drive it
You can't sell it

Yes you can't have it forever even if you try and keep it locked away!

You think you can negotiate for it but you can't.

You can't win it
You can't marry it
You can't inherit it
You can't dial 911 for it

You can only live it.

Yes happiness is not a negotiation made on a round table conference.
It isn't a promise in a bonding.
It isn't that piece of diamond that you wear on your ring.
It isn't that fancy car you drive.

But it is surely the essence of every day when you have what no one does.
You have a partner who loves you and makes ends meet for you.
You have that hug and that moment to sit and smile and treasure it forever.

Happiness is in the ebb and flow of every day living.

It is just not random enough to be acquired off a stall or rack. It isn't buried anywhere but your will which whenever wants can dig it up and make it an every day part of life.

God Bless!

3WW

WW: George Clooney

2010-04-20T13:24:00.000-07:00

1. "I grew up in the world of bad television, on my dad's sets and then as a young schmuck on dating shows and so on." What is your all time worst TV show and why?

I despise Bold and the Beautiful and I am yet to figure out a good enough reason to state!

2. "I'm certainly the last person to give advice on, well, anything." Where do you get advice?

I get it from the intellect I have fed over the years and the gut feeling which pops up on everything and mind you it is the best feeling ever!

3. "Run for office? No. I've slept with too many women, I've done too many drugs, and I've been to too many parties." What celebrity do you think could make a run for office?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm Denzel Washington :P

4. "The only failure is not to try." Tell us about a recent failure.

My recent failure is probably the incapability to fall for a guy at work because he has no degree under his belt and just started his career at the age of 29. Hmmm yes it is more of my failure than his.

5. "After doing One Fine Day and playing a pediatrician on ER, I'll never have kids. I'm going to have a vasectomy." If you have kids, tell us about them. If not, would you want them?

I will God willing have my own kids one day. I plan on three. Two sons and a daughter. And they will be kids mind you, not like robots of today!

6. "You have only a short period of time in your life to make your mark, and I'm there now." Have you made your mark yet?

I am yet to make a leap for certain things and perhaps the time isn't now, it will surely come one day.

7. "I don't believe in happy endings, but I do believe in happy travels, because ultimately, you die at a very young age, or you live long enough to watch your friends die. It's a mean thing, life." Do you believe in happy endings?

I did until many endings were rather very uncalled for. Now I know the happy beginnings and cherish them more and of course the good ride which leads us to good memories.

8. "I was in a bar and I said to a friend, 'You know, we've become those 40-year-old guys we used to look at and say, 'Isn't it sad?'" Have you ever felt that way?

lol! at 27 I think I feel like that completely!

9. "I'd think, 'In a relationship, we should never have this kind of fight.' Then, instead of figuring out how to make it work, I looked for a way to get out of it. The truth is, you shouldn't be married if you're that kind of person." Have you ever left a relationship that you later regretted?

Nope. I left no relationship. In fact the people involved in the relationship called it off and no I am entirely certain it was their loss completely!

10. "I'm the flavor of the month." What celebrity is your flavor of the month?

hmmmm... tough one! I think it is Hugh Jackman, like all my other months

wednesday wickedness ;)

The Meme Time Meme

2010-04-17T23:33:00.000-07:00

01. Real First Name: Dawn

02. Birthday: October 6

03. Where do you live: In my own shell

04: What are you studying/What are you working as: I am working as copywriter

05. What makes you happy: Shoppingggggg!!!

06. What are you listening to now/have listened to last: I listened to Imran Khan's Bhangra beats

07. What is particularly good/bad about your blog: I think it is monotone (negative) and it has ... you tell me the good!

08. An interesting fact about you: I am a die-hard fan of Roberto Cavalli and Elie Saab

09. Are you in love/have a crush at the moment: Nope not even teeny meeny

10. Favorite place to be: at home in my air conditioned room

11. Favorite lyric: "I'm looking for a lover not a friend
Somebody who can be there when I need someone to talk to
I'm looking for someone who won't pretend
Somebody not afraid to say
The way they feel about you" by Cassie (Is it you?)

12. Best time of the year: Is winter when I can wear anything without dripping any sweat

13. Weirdest food you like: Fettuccine Alfredo (it sounds weird and many don't know about it)

RECOMMEND

01. A film: Nights in Rodanthe

02. A book: Dear John by Nicholas Sparks

03. A song: Is it you? by Cassie

04: A band: Goo Goo Dolls

PLUS

01. One thing you like about a blogger that you have not met: Saanj, I love everything about her, there is no one specific thing

02. Two things you like about yourself: I am not an extreme in anything I maintain my balance with everything and I am able to identify with people which makes it easy to love them more than hate them.

03. Name three things that you need in a lover:
- he has to know how to give the best massage
- he is full of good surprises
- clean and organized in life because that says everything

Kicks (Keep Getting Harder to Find)

2010-04-16T23:19:00.000-07:00

1. As you get older, do you find that kicks are harder to find?
kicks?

2. Who is your favorite relative and why?
my little 3 year old cousin, because she makes me feel mommy!

3. Who is the most important person in your life?
At the moment me, myself and I - we three are unitedly important!

4. Name one thing you used to do that you are not proud of.
I used to fall for stupid 'i love yous' and 'i like yous' but now I think I have grown out of it forever

5. Tell us about the furthest you've ever been from what you consider "home".
I have travelled across continents and been from one end to another - that is how far

6. Who would you want to be locked in a room with for 24 hours?
I want that only with someone special and that someone special has not appeared yet

7. What are you doing this weekend?
I am going to go to my tailor, get my clothes stitched before back to work next thursday!

8. Other than your own, whose car were you in last?
I was in my mom's car almost 6 hours yesterday!

9. Tell us about the last compliment that you've received.
just today in the morning
"i dnt know if u'd believe me. but i am serious..
ur an awesome girl. and i adore u so much.... always looked for a person lik u ... if uwant to ask hw would u know abt me, well i can easily decipher from ur writings... i read almost most of urposts..... anad i have fallen in love with them and u,cos of that :)" (is that a compliment?)

Saintly Satisfaction

2010-04-14T11:31:00.000-07:00

Kissing, and I mean spontaneous, brash and ardent kissing is hands down hundred times better than those quickies in sex. It lubricates all the right gears and ignites all the right passions, sinfully setting the stage, saintly meeting satisfaction!

3WW

Mayhem Goes Stealing

2010-04-11T23:05:00.000-07:00

1. When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?

When I was a kid I wanted to be a DOCTOR when I grew up!

2. If you had one word to describe yourself , what would you choose?

Enigmatic!

From Sunday Stealing:

3. You have been given the opportunity to create the half-hour TV show of your own design. What is it called and what’s the premise?

It is called Salsa and it isn't a dance show it is a place where I take my audience on a ride through a day in my life in 30 mins.

4. You discover a beautiful island upon which you may build your own society. You make the rules. What is the first rule you put into place?

Don't pee in the water no mater how much the urgency

From Good Mourning Glory!:

5. This weeks theme if Four Seasons. Share a video.
Check this and I am not saying it goes to do any justice with the Question.

From Saturday 9:

6. What age would you encourage your children to get married?
At the age they are mentally capable

7. Who got married at the last wedding that you attended?
I haven't attended a wedding in a long time

8. Do you enjoy weddings and receptions?
Not as much as I should - they are just OK

From Thursday Thunks:

9. Your thoughts on truck drivers?
Pretty stinky and sweaty and gross

10. What is in your kitchen sink right at this very moment?
Some dirty dishes

The Me Me Meme

2010-04-10T22:53:00.000-07:00

1. Never in my life have I been:
asked for valentine

2. The one person who can drive me nuts is:
my own self

3. High school was:
terrific

4. When I’m nervous I:
get panicky

5. The last song I listened to was:
Is it You by Carrie

6. If I were to get married right now my best man/maid of honor:
would be my best friend

7. My hair is:
wavy and pretty dry

8. When I was 5:
I was calm and quiet

9. Last Christmas:
I did nothing but stay home

10. I should be..:
married with two kids but I am not

11. When I look down I see:
people too concerned with lives of other people

12. The happiest recent event was:
when I was taken shopping by my day and yes it was an event

13. If I were a character on 'Friend' I would be:
none - I dont really relate to Friends

14. By this time next year:
I will probably will be united in matrimony

15. My current gripe is:
my stupid work colleague, he is a retard and I cant stand him

16. I have a hard time understanding:
people who are too luvy duvy

17. There’s this girl I know that:
claims she is too independant but she aint

18. If I won an award, the first person I would tell would be:
my mom

19. Take my advice:
never be drawn into a situation that looks all glittery

20. The thing I want to buy:
is a nice bag

21. If you visited the place I was born:
you'd love it

22. I plan to visit:
L.A. really soon

23. If you spent the night at my house:
you'd sleep at peace

24. I’d stop my wedding if:
you promise to marry me :P

25. The world could do without:
stupids and retards any day

26. I’d rather lick the belly of a cockroach than:
..... I'd do that for nothing

27. Most recent thing I’ve bought myself:
are some fabrics

28. Most recent thing someone else bought me:
fabrics

29. My favorite blonde is:
Charlize Theron

30. My favorite brunette is:
Kim Smith

31. My favorite red head is:
none

32. My middle name is:
Sarcasm

33. In the morning I:
like to workout

34. The animals I would like to see flying besides birds are:
tigers :P

35. Once, at a bar:
I'd be at a bar

36. Last night I was:
cooking and making family happy

37. There’s this guy I know who:
totally annoys me

38. If I was an animal I’d be:
a white tiger

39. A better name for me would be:
Evana

40. Tomorrow I am:
heading back to my gym and aerobics routine

41. Tonight I am:
planning nothing

42. My birthday is:
months away from now

Have I Told You Lately That I Love You

2010-04-09T21:01:00.000-07:00

1. When was the last time (in a romantic setting) you have told someone that you loved them?
hahaha... no recall absolutely

2. Tell us about your very first romantic kiss.
There is nothing to tell, I was madly in love with him and he approached and it was all spontaneous. It still lingers.

3. What was/is your idea of the perfect date?
It is more like they show in the movies but without all the sex.

4. What music would you prefer when you are “getting it on”?
I like music of all kind especially when the lyrics sets in with the mood.

5. What is the most amazing experience you’ve ever shared with a partner?
I have had ample. I took days off from work, actually we both did and we flew out of city without telling anyone about it.

6. Sex is best saved for: love, marriage, alcohol, days that end in “y”?
Sex is best saved for days that end in 'y' :D

7. Have you ever kissed a stranger?
Yes I have but that stranger was my husband.

8. What's missing from your life?
Some love and some passion and some commitment.

9. Are you a giver or taker?
A little of both. I can't do one way constantly!

Dissolved

2010-04-07T23:10:00.000-07:00

As love deviated from the bond we shared, it left my heart and mind saturated with you and instead dissolved my identity, causing commotion and chaos within my existence.

3WW

The 35 Questions X 2 Meme: Part Two

2010-04-04T01:40:00.000-07:00

36. If you suddenly became single or are single, do you think you could last in a relationship for 12 months or more?
I have no idea

37. Do you forgive or forget?
Forgive

38. Do you trust people?
No

39. What are you not looking forward to?
to singledom forever

40. Do you get mad easily?
Perhaps

41. Tell us about the last time you were told you that you have pretty eyes.
Friday

42. Do you have strange dreams?
Sometimes

43. Ever licked someone's cheek or forehead?
Yes but cheeks only

44. Tell us about the last time you fell asleep in someones arms.
sigh! 2 years ago

45. When did you last play a game?
I play farmville and cafe world often, is that game?

46. What do you have on you at all times?
my earrings

47. Do you go out in public without getting all dressed up?
Yes. all the time

48. Do you like fruity or minty gum?
fruity gum

49. Favourite musician or group?
Nickelback

50. Do you like anyone?
No

51. Favourite computer game?
Mario Bros.

52. First album you ever went and bought with your own money?
BSB's first album

53. Think back five months ago, were you single?
Yes

54. Do you believe in celebrating anniversaries?
Yes

55. Do you think someone is thinking about you right now?
Yes maybe

56. Last thing you bought?
I bought a pair of house slippers

57. Are you a jealous person?
I envy - I don't like jealousy

58. Does it take a lot to make you cry?
No

59. Do you have a friend of the opposite sex you can talk to?
No

60. Have you ever had your heart-broken?
Yes

61. Have you ever done something while drunk that you still cannot believe you did?
No

62. Is there anyone you secretly wish you could be spending your time with right now?
Yes

63. Do you text?
Yes. almost all the time

64. Do you wish someone would call or text you right now?
No

65. Is your life anything like it was a year ago?
No. it is stable

66. Go back one year on your blog. Leave us a link to your favorite post.
I Speaketh = I Confess

67. You can only drink ONE liquid for the rest of your life, what is it?
strawberry lemonade

68. Tell us about someone that you have lost contact with someone you wish you didn't.
My best friend - soul mate

69. What is the last thing you said out loud?
I said that I am desperate

70. Will this year be better than last?
Keeping my fingers crossed for better!

Hurts So Good

2010-04-02T21:20:00.000-07:00

1. Tell us about the last time you really got hurt.
Ans. I never remember the most and the lest variations, Yes I have been hurt but healed at least from my head so I don't recall.

2. What's your oldest possession?
My skin, I have worn it for 27 years now and I still fit.

3. Do you have any phobias?
I hate closed spaces, that includes people closing in.

4. What values did your parents instill in you?
They have instilled a good lot of values but what stands above all is, 'Don't try to settle scores with anyone who wronged you, leave it to God'.

5. What are your plans for Easter?
Just take a seat back and hatch eggs.

6. I like sun more than snow.
No. I never have experienced snow so I love it.

7. Tell us about 3 fads from your teenage years.
ankle-rolled socks, braided hair, a fitted uniforms.

8. Tell us what is the most important attribute in a lover.
He should be a lover.

9. What new piece of technology have you resisted buying and what would it take for you to change your mind?
Blackberry - I need to be able to afford it.

Caustic Love

2010-03-31T03:52:00.001-07:00

If only I hadn’t let the hunches in my heart dictate the course of my life to you. I took your caustic love for healing and sacrificed my essence for you – only to wish now that I could have me back and let you go once and for all.

3WW

Lusting

2010-03-24T08:37:00.000-07:00

Yes I confess! I brazenly nuzzle against your silhouette in my head when my hunger for you screams in lust!

3WW

YES and NO

2010-03-22T09:07:00.000-07:00

HAVE YOU?

1. Googled yourself?
Definitely Yes

2. Googled your neighbor?
Heck No!

3. Used Google maps to spy on someone?
Lol. NO!

4. Spied on someone via Facebook?
Just on Pictures YES!

5. Friended someone on Facebook that you don't know?
YES

6. Tweeted gossip?
NO

7. Followed a celeb on Twitter?
YES

8. Kissed any one of your Facebook friends?
NO

9. Regretted an online relationship?
YES

10. Dumped someone online?
NO

11. Played a prank on someone online?
NO

12. Spied on a High School bully online?
NO

13. Written a nasty email?
YES

14. Sent something X-rated via email?
NO

15. Searched your state's/locality's database for predators?
NO

16. Done an online search on someone's traffic offenses?
NO

17. Ordered dinner online?
YES

18. Purchased something over $250 online?
NO

19. Left an anonymous comment?
NO

20. Checked out someone else's email (as in spy on your s.o.)?
NO

The Eight Tens Meme

2010-03-21T00:39:00.000-07:00

TEN TO START.

1. Are you single? YES

2. Are you happy? NO

3. Are you bored? YES

4. Are you naked? NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS

5. Are you a blonde? NO

6. Are you moody? YES YES

7. Are you a lover/hater? Lover YES

8. Are you hot/cold? HOT and COLD Both

9. Are you Irish? NO

10. Are you Asian? YES

TEN FACTS.

1. Name: Americanising Desi

2. Nicknames: AD

3. Birth mark: NONE

4. Hair color: DARK BROWN

5. Natural hair color: DARK BROWN

6. Eye color: DARK BROWN

7. Height: 5'4''

8. Facebook Mood: SO -S)

9. Favorite color: BLUE

10. One Place to Visit: L.A. USA

TEN THINGS ABOUT YOUR LOVE LIFE.

1. Do you believe in love at first sight? YES

2. Do you believe in soul mates? YES

4. Have you ever been hurt emotionally? YES

5. Have you ever broken someone’s heart? YES

6. Have you ever been cheated on? NO

7. Have you ever liked someone and not told them? YES

8. Are you afraid of commitment? NO

9. Who was the last person you hugged? NO RECALL

10. Who was the last person you kissed? NONE OF MY MEMORY'S BUSINESS

TEN THIS OR THAT.

1. Love or lust? LOVE

3. Cats or dogs? CATS

4. A few best friends or many regular friends? FEW BFs

5. Television or internet? 60 - 40 ratio

6. Chinese Or Indian? Chinese

7. Wild night out or romantic night in? ROMANTIC Night In

8. Money or Happiness? 50-50

9. Night or day? Night

10. MSN or phone? NONEEEE

TEN HAVE YOU EVER.

1. Been caught sneaking out? NO

2. Been skinny dipping? NO

3. Stolen? YES

4. Bungee jumped? NO

5. Lied to someone you liked? YES

6. Finished an entire jaw breaker? NO

8. Wanted an ex bf/gf back? NO

9. Cried because you lost a pet? NO

10. Wanted to disappear? YES

TEN PREFERENCES IN A PARTNER.

1. Smile or eyes? EYES

2. Light or dark hair? DARK HAIR

3. Hugs or kisses? BOTH BOTH

4. Shorter or taller? TALLER

5. Intelligence or attraction? BOTH BOTH

6. Romantic or spontaneous? BOTH

7. Funny or serious? BOTH

8. Older or Younger? OLDER

9. Outgoing or quiet? CAN I PLEASE NOT HAVE AN EXTREMIST!

10. Sweet or Bad Ass? SWEET and SOUR not BAD

TEN HAVE YOU’S.

1. Ever performed in front of a large crowd? YES

2. Ever done drugs? NO

3. Ever been pregnant? NO

5. Ever been on a cheer leading team? NO

6. Ever Been on a dance team? YES

7. Ever been on a sports team? YES

8. Ever been in a drama play/production? YES

9. Ever owned a BMW, Mercedes Benz, Escalade, Hummer or Bentley? NO

10. Ever been in a rap video? NO

TEN LASTS.

1. Last phone call you made: MOM and GRANDMA

2. Last person you hung out with: My BEAUTICIAN

4. Last time you worked: FRIDAY

5. Last person you tackled: NONE

6. Last person you IM’d: NO RECALL

8. Last person(s) you went to the movies with: NONE

9. Last thing you missed: MY FAVOURITE DRAMA

10. Last thing you ate: Mashed Potatoes

I m sinking

2010-03-17T04:04:00.000-07:00

You make me weary with all this waiting.
My pulse is at random freaking and fluctuating.
For how long will you shard my emotions and rape me off my believing?

3WW

The Something Meme

2010-03-14T22:55:00.000-07:00

- Name something you do every day
Bathe

- Name something someone else calls you
Jaan (Darling)

- Name something that irritates the heck out of you online
Random people adding on social networks

- Name something that bugs the stuff out of you at a restaurant
Loud talking and Blabber Mouths

- Name something you cannot tolerate at a store
Crashing carts and falling boxes

- Name something you’d like to call your co-worker
Ass! and Jack-ass!

- Name something that you hate about someone close to you
Doesn’t let me have my say at any time – always makes me look bad

- Name something you don’t like about your sibling
Too much of an arrogant attitude

- Name something you like about yourself
Indifferent about other people and their doings

- Name something you would rather be doing right now
Going out there to work out a plan for my business

- Name something that you’ll be doing next week at this time
Monday Mourning

Sunday Stealing: Judd's Merged Meme

2010-03-13T23:27:00.000-08:00

1. What were doing 10 years ago?
I was trying to fit in at a "ALL GIRLS COLLEGE"

2. Five snacks that you enjoy in a perfect, non weight-gaining world
The K-Special Bars - Vegetable Soup - Grilled chicken - Boiled Vegetables - Mashed Potatoes

3. Five things you would do if you were a billionaire:
-I would go shopping anytime and buy anything I wanted
-Give charity more than I can give now
-Get a few poor and needy girls married
-Visit places I now only admire in pictures
-Buy and marry anyone I want

4. Three of your habits:
-I get worked up really easily
-I like my privacy and love to keep my room door closed
-I get irritated when someone is in my space without asking me

5. Five jobs that you've have had:
-I was an assistant librarian
-I was assistant to an Insurance agent
-I did baby sitting for a while
-Fashion Designer for my self business
-Creative Copy Writer

6. Five places that you've lived:
-I have just lived in Karachi, Pakistan and L.A., USA

7. Five things that you did yesterday:
-I went out to get lace for my clothes
-Did a little shopping for clothes
-Bought grocery
-Ordered Pizza for Dinner
-And watched a comedy movie with dinner

8. Five people you would want to get to know more about:
-I wish I was that inquisitive, those I want to know are willing enough to open themselves to me, which doesn't leave my wanting lingering.

9. Abortion: for or against it?
AGAINST IT!

10. Do you think the world would fail with a female president?
huh! You think the world could just have ONE FEMALE preside over every country? I don't think so!

11. Do you believe in the death penalty?
Yes I do!

12. Do you wish marijuana would be legalized already?
NOOOOOOOOO!

13. Are you for or against premarital sex?
It really is wrong if you go around sleeping with anyone and everyone!

14. Do you think same sex marriage should be legalized?
YUKH! no!

15. Do you think it's wrong that so many Hispanics are illegally moving to the USA?
It is wrong just like it is wrong that so many darn Afghanis are moving into Pakistan.

16. Should the alcohol age be lowered to eighteen?
Alcohol is just a NO NO!

17. Should the war in Iraq be called off?
About TIME!

18. Assisted suicide is illegal: do you agree?
huh! NO!

19. Do you believe in spanking your children?
NEVER! though I have been spanked a little when I was a kid

20. Do you worry that others will judge you from reading some of your answers?
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! DUNNO! DUN CARE!

Veil me

2010-03-10T01:53:00.000-08:00

If I could only modify the behavior of love towards me . I wish it were as obedient as my heart and as dedicated as my soul. I wish it could veil me from the eyes of the rest of the world, just so no one falls in love with me because I love one and he isn't with me right – please pray all!

Three Word Wednesday

Another Meme About Me

2010-03-06T23:07:00.000-08:00

1. Are you currently in a serious relationship?
NOOOOO!

2. What was your dream growing up?
Become a Doctor

3. What talent do you wish you had?
The talent of manipulating people

4. If I bought you a drink, what would it be?
It could be strawberry slush!

5. What was the last book you read?
Girls of Riyadh

6. What zodiac sign are you?
Libra

7. Any tattoos and/or piercings? Explain where.
Just piercing on my ears and one on my nose

8. Worst habit?
When I am nervous I go insane

9. What is your favorite sport?
Sleeping

10. Do you have a pessimistic or optimistic attitude?
Both as the time requires

11. Worst thing to ever happen to you?
Why I escaped for three days away from home!

12. Tell me one weird fact about you.
I like to go outside the limit line and do things sometimes

13. Do you think clowns are cute or scary?
ewww never liked them

14. If you could change one thing about how you look, what would it be?
I'd change my hair from wavy to straight!

15. Would you be my crime partner or my conscience?
Conscience!

16. Ever been arrested?
Noooo!

17. If you won $10,000 today, what would you do with it?
Oh trust me first I will go shopping because I am so deprived with the pay I get!

18. What's your favorite place to hang out at?
Home Sweet Home

19. Do you believe in ghosts?
Noooo

20. Favorite thing to do in your spare time?
Read and Write

21. Do you swear a lot?
Never!

22. Biggest pet peeve?
Body Odor and Burping in public

23. In one word, how would you describe yourself?
Anticipating

24. Do you believe/appreciate romance?
LOVE ROMANCE!

25. Do you believe in God?
ALWAYS and FOREVER

Your Smiling Face

2010-03-06T03:50:00.000-08:00

1. No matter what's going on in your life, what always makes you smile?
A thought of him, even if I have to steal a moment!

2. What's the biggest lie you've ever told?
That I have never lied!

3. Do you hold a grudge?
Sometimes I think I do against myself. Other times I am thinking if I do.

4. What is the worst job you've ever had?
The job of a 39 day wife aka house cleaner.

5. What would be your dream job?
To be a housewife to a man who knows I am his equal.

6. What is the happiest event you've experienced?
My convocation!

7. What is the saddest thing you've experienced?
Breakup with my best friend.

8. Do you tend to exaggerate or underestimate?
Sometimes. I think I am human enough.

9. List the cars that you have owned. Give us just a few words about each one.
None I have owned personally. It always has been DAD's car!

Two Worlds

2010-03-03T02:23:00.000-08:00

There are two types of worlds within the sphere we keep moving in. One is the real world where everything is practically in pieces and the other one we turn to when disappointments pile up making living frail and essentially not as sacred as our ancestors promised and preached it to be.

It does amaze me how quickly we jump from world to world just to keep going in life. We evolve and revolve and make a bunch of things happen from minute to minute.

Three Word Wednesday

The Disney Meme

2010-02-28T07:36:00.000-08:00

1. Which non-Disney Princess Disney Film is your favorite?
Kung Fu Panda :D

2. Which Disney film makes you cry the most?
The Lion King

3. Which Disney film makes you the happiest?
Cinderella

4. Which Disney film has the best music?
The Lion King

5. Which Disney film has the best love story?
The Lion King

6. Who is your favorite Disney Princess?
Cinderella

7. Who is your favorite Disney Prince?
The Beast

8. Who is your favorite Disney animal sidekick?
Pumba!

9. Who is your favorite Disney main character animal?
Mufasa

10. Who is your favorite villain?
Scar :D

11. What is your favorite Disney song?
No matter how your heart is beating if you keep on believing, the dreams that you wish will come true :D

12. What is your favorite Disney villian song?
The Scar song along with the hyenas!

13. What is your favorite Disney animal song?
Bare Necessities

14. What is your favorite Disney Princess song?
Once upon a Dream

15. What is your favorite Disney Prince song?
A whole new world

16. What is your favorite Disney Prince/Princess duet song?
A whole new world

17. What is your favorite Disney love song?
can you feel the love tonight!

Should I Stay or Should I Go

2010-02-26T21:27:00.000-08:00

1. Have you ever been on a date and you had to tell the person to just go away?
Ans. NO

2. Do you wish you were someplace else right now? If yes, where?
Ans. Yes, with my long-distance love

3. Do you have any pet peeves?
Ans. I hate people who don't read signs of being unwanted!

4. Tell us about a guilty pleasure of yours.
Ans. I am a shopaholic

5. If you could change places and become a celebrity, who would you'd like to be?
Ans. Charlize Theron

6. What do you consider your biggest talent?
Ans. Writing

7. Do you have a favorite actor/actress that is not a big star, yet they are your favorite?
Ans. Yes he is Rajat Kapoor from Indian Cinema but for me he is really big!

8. Name your five favorite bands of all time.
Ans. BSB, Linkin Park, Nickelback, Goo Goo Dolls, Solid Harmony

9. If you were to start a new relationship (for whatever reason), how much of your sexual history would you share? Would you resort to lying?
Ans. I don't have that much of history but if he is curious, I'd tell him to let the past be in the past cuz I surly wouldn't want to know his details!

No Fun!

2010-02-24T04:01:00.000-08:00

My job as per designation is to generate marvelous mouthwatering and money fetching captions and copy. I hate to say it this out loud but my designation and duty contradict highly and I grumble because I am appreciated meagerly. For the effort I put in every day, I get a pay that teases me monthly.

3WW

The Clown's Meme 2

2010-02-20T23:29:00.000-08:00

34. What do you like about the summer?
I love the prints that I can wear. All flowers, bright and pretty!

35. What do you like about spring?
The blooming love all around :D

36. How many states provinces have you lived in?
In the US just about 1, California!

37. What cities/towns have you lived in?
LA only

38. Do you prefer shoes, socks, or bare feet?
bare feet

39. Are you a social person?
nope

40. What was the last thing you ate?
I ate a beef burger

41. What is your favorite restaurant?
I love chinese, and anywhere that sells good chinese food is my pick!

42. What is your favorite ice cream?
I love pistaccio and Strawberry!

43. What is your favorite dessert?
mmmm Not very picky about it!

44. What is your favorite kind of soup?
Chicken Corn

45. What kind of jelly do you like on your PB & J sandwich?
STrawberry

46. Do you like Chinese food?
LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEE it!

47. Do you like coffee?
Latte anytime!

48. How many glasses of water, a day, do you drink on average?
About 5

49. What do you drink in the morning?
Tea!

50. What non-banking related card in your wallet is the most valuable to you?
My Snob Card :D

51. Do you sleep on a certain side of the bed?
yes the right side

52. Do you know how to play poker?
nope

53. Do you like to cuddle?
who doesnt!

54. Have you ever been to Canada?
Nope

55. Do you have an addictive personality?
I dunno! Dunt think so!

56. Do you eat out or at home more often?
at home often!

57. What do you miss about highschool, if anything?
I miss my first ever crush ;)

58. Do you know anyone with the same birthday as you?
Yes I met this one person online once!

59. Do you want kids?
Definitely!

60. Do you speak any other languages?
Urdu!

61. Have you ever gotten stitches?
No!

62. Have you ever ridden in an ambulance?
No!

63. Do you prefer an ocean or a pool?
Pool for swimming! Ocean for gazing!

64. Do you prefer a window seat or an aisle seat?
Window!

65. Do you know how to drive stick?
huh!

66. What is your favorite thing to spend money on?
Clothes, shoes and bags :D

Don't Stand So Close to Me

2010-02-19T22:33:00.000-08:00

1. Who would you like not to stand so close to you?
At this very moment ALL PEOPLE AT MY WORK PLACE

2. Which of the following aspects of your life would you think rates the highest: mind, body or spirit?
My Mind!

3. What is your favorite movie line?
You can't live your life for other people. You've got to do what's right for you, even if it hurts some people you love. ~ The Notebook

4. What is your favorite movie title?
Life or Something Like it

5. What is something that has happened to you that you would consider a miracle?
I came out of a failed marriage much earlier than most people do.

6. What do you try to stay away from?
Negative Influences of Any Kind

7. What is it too late for?
Too late for hunting down love.

8. Give someone credit for something and name it if you can.
I give credit for my whole sole being, everything that is better in me than a million others is all I owe to my parents and their education. They have been the best in everything.

9. Would you rather be famous now & forgotten after you die or forgotten now & famous after you die, forever? And why?
I don't like to be thought about after I die. I'd like to be famous now if possible.

Happy Love

2010-02-17T07:48:00.000-08:00

My love treat to all my readers :D

Happy Wordlessness

The Clown's Meme 1

2010-02-13T22:42:00.000-08:00

1. How old will you be in five years?
32 years old

2. Who did you spend at least two hours with today?
No one but myself

3. How tall are you?
5'4''

4. What do you look forward to most in the next six weeks?
I think my exit from 9 to 5 and into my own business eventually.

5. What’s the last movie you saw?
My Name is Khan

6. Who was the last person you called?
Tried calling my long distance lover but he didnt pick up.

7. Who was the last person to call you?
It was my mom.

8. What was the last text message you received?
Just now I received "Open your eyes!, So the Sun can Rise, Flowers can blossom, Birds can sing, b'cos all are waiting to see, ur beautiful smile, Good Morning!"

9. Who was the last person to leave you a voicemail?
I dont use Voicemail

10. Do you prefer to call or text?
Text and only text

11. What were you doing at 12am last night?
I was watching 'My name is Khan'

12. Are your parents married/separated/divorced?
Married and together mashallah

13. When is the last time you saw your mom?
Just now. we live together

14. What color are your eyes?
dark brown

15. What time did you wake up today?
at 10:30 a.m.

16. What are you wearing right now?
pjs, tshirt and a shawl

17. What is your favorite christmas song?
It is the season to be jolly lalalal alalala

18. Where is your favorite place to be?
In a hotel room, all alone!

19. Where is your least favorite place to be?
In someone else's room!

20. Where would you go if you could go anywhere?
I'd love to go to Cali

21. Where do you think you’ll be in 10 years?
I hope wish pray that I'd be married!

22. Do you tan or burn?
No!

23. What did you fear was going to get you at night as a child?
Nothing :)

24. What was the last thing that really made you laugh?
The movie

25. How many TVs do you have in your house?
Three

26. How big is your bed?
Queen size

27. Do you have a laptop or desktop computer?
desktop

29. What color are your sheets?
It is pale blue and pink

30. How many pillows do you sleep with?
two

31. What is your favorite season?
the pleasant and not so cold winter

32. What do you like about Autumn?
The orange leaves

33. What do you like about winter?
The cuddle and the hot chocolate

It's a beautiful Morning!

2010-02-12T22:25:00.000-08:00

1. Are you a morning person?
Truly and Deeply! My head alarm goes off at 8 a.m. every day!

2. Tell us of a news story that truly shocked you.
Nothing shocks me, I am anti shock! :D

3. What was your very first job?
I was an assistant librarian for kids at my own school.

4. What characteristics do you despise?
I don't like people with unnecessary attitude. I think we all have it but not we all know how to flaunt it!

5. To where would you retire?
Hmmmm good Q. I think I am in retirement already!

6. Are you named after anyone?
Yes, some character in a drama serial.

7. How do you release anger?
I write and I blog!

8. Do you use sarcasm a lot?
It is my middle name **wink

9. What is your least favorite thing about yourself?
I don't have much faith in me like everyone has in me. Truly I am working hard on that every day!

Lucid Picture

2010-02-10T07:08:00.000-08:00

Happiness is a state of mind only the righteous can really taste that is what they all say. While seeking that flavor we unconsciously salvage the present state of being and oversee the lucid picture of the restless ever-after that draws itself in and drives out all pleasures.

Three Word Wednesday

Excuse me!

2010-02-03T02:30:00.000-08:00

Excuse me! Think I’ve mistaken you for somebody else…
Excuse me! I am a little frantic at the moment…
Excuse my casual lurch please!
Excuse me if I pollute your surrounding with the odor of him!
Excuse my absent-mindedness and my disability to bathe out of his stink!

I should not give a damn about him or anyone yet I continue to disappoint me and my countless attempts.

3WW

The Pretentious Blogging Meme

2010-01-31T22:47:00.000-08:00

1. How long have you been blogging?
I had my first blog in 2003

2. What made you start?
Just my daily routine of journaling

3. Who inspired you?
myself

4. About how many hours a week would you estimate you spend on your blog?
I think I am an addict

5. What kind of experience or background do you have with writing?
I started with a poem for my mom on mother's day and then it was all about romance. I had my first crush in grade 5.

6. Talk about how you come up with blog topics. Where do you get your ideas?
Just random - ness

7. What or who inspires you and your blog?
Everything that inspires life possibly :)

8. Where and/or how do your brainstorming for your blog?
I just sit on Microsoft Word and that is the start of the weirdest of possibilities.

9. Do you have any blogging rules or guidelines you follow?
I don't think so. I like breaking rules.

10. Is there anything you will not blog about?
Anything extreme.

11. Do you have any sort of a publishing schedule in terms of day of week or topic?
Naaaaaa but I do religiously publish memes.

Beacon

2010-01-27T01:49:00.000-08:00

The spark of true achievement comes from the will to let go of ones ability to grieve more and make merry less. Our kindred is never responsible for imparting the genes of negativity in our existence hence we become what we chose to become, our only beacon comes from within and what we chose to have around us.

3WW

Ten on Tuesday

2010-01-26T00:42:00.000-08:00

1. What accomplishment are you most proud of?
I am yet not satisfied with any. I know I can accomplish more than I have.

2. How much did you weigh when you were born?
8 pounds I think.

3. What is your favorite perfume?
I am in love with DKNY ‘be delicious’ [pink]

4. How many siblings do you have?
three gorgeous baby sisters

5. How many children would you like to have? (Or how many do you have?)
I would love to have two sons and a daughter :)

6. What’s the best class you took in college?
Political Science

7. What was your favorite game to play when you were a child?
I loved playing monopoly and cluedo.

8. What character on Friends are you most like?
I have no idea. Can’t relate to any.

9. Are you a phone person? (ie: Do you like talking on the phone?)
I prefer texting more. Hate to have phone conversations.

10. What was the best vacation you ever took?
Went to Las Vegas and loved every minute of being there!

I Think We're Alone Now

2010-01-25T23:47:00.000-08:00

1. What celebrity in a fantasy would you like to be alone with?
Shahrukh Khan or Shahid Kapoor or Hugh Jackman

2. Have ever dated a good friend?
Not really dated but we did go out a lot together. It was confusing.

3. What is the most embarrassing song that you like?
Chumma Chumma de de (Chumma is the weirdest way to say ‘Kiss’)

4. What is your favorite tear jerker movie?
Nights in Rodanthe

5. What about yourself makes you least secure?
My destiny. My fate.

6. Do you believe in destiny?
I think I do but now I am not too sure

7. What 'issue' do you think your opinion is so right about that you end up trying to sway others to your point of view?
In my religion, drinking is forbidden because it makes you lose consciousness and control. I say I will drink in the presence of my husband because whatever I do after I am drunk will be with someone who is my legal partner in life.

8. What are 5 things you don't care about?
- my job
- how rich my husband will be
- nosy relatives
- loud mouths
- society status

9. Have you ever been in a situation where you weren't sure if you were seducing or being seduced?
lol. Yes I think I have been there.

Uncountable

2010-01-20T22:19:00.000-08:00

It is impossible to measure one’s failings in life as it is impossible to sum up the ideal moments that we get. Surely the sorrow of failings overburdens us and hence seems to be more in ratio. But unless you don’t teeter and sway you don’t get much out of living. All good moments do account for smiles and satisfaction but a striking balance and learning comes when hardships fall in the way.

Three Word Wednesday

When We Was Fab

2010-01-16T07:45:00.000-08:00

1. Is there a blog as far as its appearance goes that you think is the most fabulous?
I really like some of the blogs. I can't pinpoint them because they mostly have a great appearance. NO I AM NOT BEING DIPLOMATIC.

2. Do you like the look and the contents of your blogs?
Absolutely. All my blogs.

3. Have you ever thought what would happen to your blog in case you died?
I did give it a thought and I concluded that people who read me can keep reading what I scribbled forever because it will always be there. Something to remember me by.

4. Has any particular blogger had a great impact on how you set up and write your blog?
I get inspired by a few national bloggers. How they take up on the existing scenario and blog about it. Tazeen is one of them but that really hasn't had me scribble on the same lines. I just envy her once in a while :)

5. Would you want a fellow blogger to give you suggestions or criticism of what you write?
They all do mostly and some actually are quite blunt.

6. Is the number of visitors each day to your blog important to you?
It is actually. I like to get reviews on my work. I do work like an author. I need feedback.

7. What percentage of your readers do you think actual comment?
The ratio of those who follow me and those who comment is like 10:50 and no I am not kidding.

8. Do you have a favorite blogger who does the memes that you participate in?
I would not name one because I think all excel in memes and do a neat deed with it.

9. How often do you update your blog/site and why?
Every other day it is updated. Consecutively on Wednesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday! Because I love doing memes.

A simple woman's daybook: Jan 11

2010-01-14T03:14:00.000-08:00

My first time and I loved the whole experience. Thank God time is in my favor today or else I wouldn't have managed this.

Outside my window... there is always a breeze. I can see the dew drops on my flowers and it is a sightly ecstasy.

I am thinking... a long soak with the petals in my tub will do my mind and body good.

I am thankful for... the feelings I have and the senses I keep, for those who lack it don’t know what they are missing.

I am wearing... a shawl to keep me warm and add me charm.

I am remembering... how erotic that kiss was once and how ticklish it always makes me when I recall it.

I am going... to go shopping and buy me loads and loads of girly stuff. About time I treated me.

I am currently reading... absolutely nothing. I like to read blogs but books are not just my companion at the very moment.

I am hoping... one day I will be able to have all the sweets without the scare of adding pounds to my weight.

On my mind... there is nothing but love and love and matrimony.

Noticing that... I haven’t felt like a woman in years.

Pondering these words... “If you find something that could be good… you should hang onto it.” And I let so much goodness slip by me.

From the kitchen... lots of love making and kissing and caressing.

Around the house... my bedroom and bathroom are the favorite places to be.

One of my favorite things… Capturing moments and sipping a delightful cup of café latte.

Lately I am loving the following picture and hence I am sharing the emotion below.