No Goo goo with Ga ga

1. "Peace. it does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart."

Do you keep your cool no matter what is going on around you?

Lately I have been PMSing way too much and that makes me impatient, hence I lose my cool instantly!

2. "Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."
Do you feel that career should be more important than your love life?

Absolutely - Something should be there when love dies (which happens eventually)

3. "You have to be unique, and different, and shine in your own way."
In what way(s) do you feel that you are unique?

I am me and there is no one like me - that's it!

4. "I want women -- and men -- to feel empowered by a deeper and more psychotic part of themselves. The part they're always trying desperately to hide. I want that to become something that they cherish."
Do you feel that there is a part of you that you need to hide from most people?

Yes - people are hypocrites and very mean. They like to dress up and walk to parties with others, but watch as they get drunk and wasted and then make headlines about it! (p.s. this has nothing to do with my personal experience, just metaphorically speaking)

5. "Love is like a brick. You can build a house, or you can sink a dead body."
Have you ever held on to a relationship even though you truly knew it was already over?

Yes and wasted years over it - truly it was a learning experience I'll never forget!

6. "Sometimes in life you don't always feel like a winner, but that doesn't mean you're not a winner, you want to be like yourself."
Would your friends say that you are a winner in this game of life?

Lol! ask my friends, probably they'll know this one better!

7. "A glamorous life is quite different to a life of luxury. I don’t need luxury. For years, I was practically broke but I was still very vain and glamorous. And I still am."
Can you tell us about a time when you were broke and yet still happy?

Right now :D I am totally broke and no kidding!

8. "I’m single right now and I’ve chosen to be single because I don’t have the time to get to know anybody. So it’s okay not to have sex, it’s okay to get to know people. I’m celibate. Celibacy’s fine."
Do you think staying celibate between relationships important?

Very- always!

9. "Fight and push harder for what you believe in, you'd be surprised, you are much stronger than you think."
Tell us about an incident where you were stronger than you thought you were.

My divorce!

10. "I lie in bed and try to pray and breathe. I have a very overactive mind. I’m the sort of person who’d never take medication to calm myself. It’s maddening. But I love what comes out."
Do you feel that you always have the ability to calm yourself?

I am the only one who has it and then I turn to God!

The Eighty Meme, Part One

Cheers to all of us thieves!

1. What curse word do you use the most?
Bullshit

2. Do you own an iPod?
Nopes but it is on my list now

3. What person do you talk to on the phone the most?
My best friend from university - Amy!

4. Do you still remember the first person you kissed?
Yes - I haven't kissed a lot of randomness so I know!

5. Do you remember where you were on 11/9/01?
Yes I was at home watching it on CNN

6. What was the last movie you watched?
I watchedddddddddddd ... been ages so no clue!

7. Has anyone ever called you lazy?
Yes everyone and me!

8. Do you ever take medication to help you fall asleep?
Nopes I have plenty of that come to me naturally :P

9. Has anyone told you a secret this week?
About themselves? I don't recall if this week or the week before but yes a blogger friend did.

10. What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex?
The first word they say

11. What are you looking forward to?
For love to find me

12. Do you own any band t-shirts?
Adidas

13. What will you be doing in one hour?
I will probably have breakfast

14. Is anyone in love with you?
lol - Don't know because all of them just love me and are not even close to 'in love' with me

15. Last time you cried?
Day before yesterday when I spoke to Allah

16. Are you on a desktop computer or a laptop?
Desktop!

17. Are you currently wanting any piercings or tattoos?
I want an extra one in my ear but it hurts so having double thoughts

18. Would you ever date anyone covered in tattoos?
NOOOOO NEVERRRRRRR

19. What were you doing before this?
Sleeping

20. When is the last time you slept on the floor?
hmmm not since my bed arrived!

21. How many hours of sleep do you need to function?
6-7

22. Do you eat breakfast daily?
Yes- 9 out of 10 times

Going to the Dogs

1. Besides working a full time job during the week, gym at a minimum of 3 times a week, I also work a part time job on the weekends at a doggie daycare/kennel (Love it). It might seem busy however I do make time for my family, friends and my dog - they are the most important.

I have no idea where in that are you going to fit me and you+me!

2. Are you the one?

No - it is Marilyn Monroe! too bad you'd have to die to be with her!

3. not into game players cheaters or being lied to.

That is kinda nice of you to reveal your negative assets!

4. Simply is the best of me, sincere, caring, conservative person.

Simply Complicated you mean!

5. I am looking a nice person who is willing to go out on weekends or stay in.

How about get a dog?

6. Looking for an honest one.

One and Honest? Goodluck searching the haystack of honesty!

7. I must have someone who is willing to accept me for the way I am and not someone who wants to morph me into that perfect someone, cuz let's face it-the perfect someone does not exist.

Let's face it you are way too far and scared from trying to be perfect - next please!

8. I will pretty much eat anything.

A roasted roach too?

9. I don't like alcoholics.

How many have you been with to know that you dont like em?

10. I am outgoing,funny,caring,loving and show my feelings through physical touches so get used to this and if its a problem - OH WELL! Deal with it!

You've got enough to deal with in your head and life - you just don't seem accomodating! Peace!

Welcome to Summertime 2010!

Doing Thursday Thunks the FIRST TIME EVER!

1. It became officially summer on Monday. What's your favorite part of winter?

Sorry but summer has been in my country since March and I am not excited about recalls of the winter – it passed too quick.

2. What was your worst summer vacation ever?

The summer of … no recalls :P

3. Kimber's husband just got the dream job that he's hoped for. So a big shout out to her and Anthony! Tell us about the best job that you ever had.

I am in my best job. Just waiting to get paid more than the boss’s secretary. Sucks when you know she isn’t doing anything and you do everything and still don’t get more.

4. Who is probably talking a load of crap about you right now?

haha – the world doesn’t revolve around me :D thank GOD!

5. An alien appears and offers you the opportunity to repeat one year of your life. You will still know everything that you know now. He explains that no matter what you do differently, when you are returned to the present nothing will have changed. What year would you pick and why?

How about just rewindddddddd to the time when my ex best friend didn’t meet the girl he married and met me instead!

6. Name three things you have on you at all times. Explain why.

I have my bracelet, which looks nice with every outfit I wear.
I have my hair clip to keep my bangs in place.
And my gold earrings which are neutral to all attires.

7. When was the last time you wrote a letter to someone on paper and mailed it?

In 2007 August.

8. If you could have everyone in the blogosphere read just one of your posts, which post would you pick and why?

I can’t pick and choose, but I think the wife’s resume they’d find interesting.

9. I recently read that the music industry continues to decline at an alarming rate. In the last year it said the sales of Michael Jackson's and The Beatles' music are the only artists who sales continue to climb. The article stated that the two are holding up the industry. Have you bought a CD or mp3 of either artist recently?

I don’t but any anymore. I download em.

10. What radio ad right now do you find so annoying that you'd rather have a tooth drilled than hear it again?

Who listens to radio?

11. Berleen walks into a bar on a hot Minnesota day. At the bar sits a priest, a rabbi and a minister. A ten foot duck walks into the bar right after Berleen. What drink do you think Berleen orders?

Beer

12. There is a knock on your door. It can be anyone in the world. Who would you want it to be?

My future with open arms.

13. What would be the worst entertainment or sporting that you could be forced to watch?

Rugby – pathetic and boring.

Heating with Heather

1. "With a parent, it's always guilt. You want to be there, but you kind of also want to be here." Tell us about a time where you had to be selfish with your time, and felt guilty about it (whether it was time taken from your children or a S/O).

No recalls absolutely. Probably when I had to spend an entire day at the salon, skipping work and family, getting pampering. Does that count?

2. "Sex appeal is not on purpose." Do you feel that you can create more sex appeal or that it's just a given?

I don’t think on those lines. I have an appeal of a magnetic and I think that is enough to pull no?

3. "One man is not enough." Has there ever been a time when monogamy seemed difficult?

hell no!

4. "I think I've always been good so God wouldn't strike me dead." Do your religious beliefs really influence your behavior?

My beliefs have made me who I am today and what I do is entirely based on my moral understanding.

5. "You just have to forgive them for being men." Do you feel there are some things in a S/O that you can't change because of their sex?

Change is permanent. It happens but over time. And in everyone it happens.

6. "When I look in the mirror I see the girl I was when I was growing up, with braces, crooked teeth, a baby face and a skinny body." Do you see a younger less secure person when you gaze in the mirror?

No, and oldie who needs to plan her life accordingly.

7. “I was a pregnant vixen.” If you have ever been pregnant, or have been with a woman who was, how did effect your sex life?

No clue about that.

8. “Everything needs to be worked on...” What would you like to work on to become a better person?

My ability to tolerate and forget. I have this darn good memory and I am not pleased with it usually.

9. "From an early age, I was aware of what America meant, and how the Marines at Camp Pendleton were ready to defend us at a moment's notice. I also remember what fabulous bodies those troops had." When did you think that you understood the sacrifices that people in the military make on behalf of their country?

After I started reading the history of my country and writing my version of it with heart and soul. But it still remains that I am patriotically challenged.

10. "The bigger the better. Do I dare say that!?" In your experience, is there truth here?

No. Happiness Comes in Small Packages.

Truce with Bruce

1. “When it comes to luck, you make your own.”
Do you believe you have that type of control over your luck?

Absolutely NOT

2. “You've got to learn to live with what you can't rise above.”
What is something you have had difficulty rising above?

My attachment with those non-existent in my life now!

3. “Poor men wanna be rich, rich men wanna be kings, and a king ain’t satisfied till he rules everything.”
Would you want to be rich?

Who wouldn't? Money talks baby!

4. “The best music is essentially there to provide you something to face the world with.”
Tell us about a song that helps you "face the world."

Gotta be Somebody by Nickelback

5. “In America everything's about who's number one today.”
Have you ever been a fan of someone you thought would last but turned out to be a flash in the pan?

Nopes ... I always know who'll hit it big ;)

6. “Is a dream a lie if it don't come true, or is it something worse?”
Has any dream of yours come true?

Yes, I am with a job that I love.

7. “Our American government has strayed too far from American values. It is time to move forward. The country we carry in our hearts is waiting.”
What would you change if you became the president?

I would change people.

8. "Yeah, I had gay friends. The first thing I realized was that everybody's different, and it becomes obvious that all of the gay stereotypes are ridiculous."
How do you feel about gay rights?

Absurd and unnecessary!

9. " It's a sad man my friend who's living in his own skin and can't stand the company."
Have you ever been disappointed in yourself?

Many times.

10. "The best music is essentially there to provide you something to face the world with."
What's your favorite type of music? What's your favorite band?

I like to have beats in my music, gives my heart a pump!

Let's get Frank, Frank!

1. “I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.”
How often do you drink alcohol?
NEVER EVER!

2. “The best revenge is massive success.”
Have you ever gloated or wanted to over success?
YOU MEAN OVER SUCCEED ... NO! I JUST WANNA SUCCEED!

3. “You gotta love livin', baby, 'cause dyin' is a pain in the [butt].”
What do enjoy most about your life?
MY JOB IS FANTASTIC - IT KEEPS ME SANE.

4. “I'm not one of those complicated, mixed-up cats. I'm not looking for the secret to life.... I just go on from day to day, taking what comes.”
Do you ever overthink a situation in your life?
YES - WHEN THE HELL AM I TO WED!

5. “I would like to be remembered as a man who had a wonderful time living life, a man who had good friends, fine family - and I don't think I could ask for anything more than that, actually.”
Tell us about your best friend.
WHEN HE WAS THERE I NEEDED NO BODY ELSE IN THE WORLD.

6. “I like intelligent women. When you go out, it shouldn't be a staring contest.”
How important is intelligence when picking (or having picked) a s/o to you?
VERY IMPORTANT! WITHOUT HIS WIT AND INTELLIGENCE WE WOULDN't LAST AT ALL.

7. “I drink to the confusion of our enemies.”
What's the closest situation that you've had to dealing with an enemy?
SO CLOSE THAT SHE COULD STAB ME but I ESCAPED!

8. “Orange is the happiest color.”
What's your favorite color?
PEACH AND PINK!

9. “Dare to wear the foolish clown face.”
Are you ever a clown?
I AM! WHEN I AM HIGH!

10. “Don't get even, get mad.”
Have you ever tried getting even?
NO. FOR ME SILENCE IS THE BEST REVENGE!

On this day, God wants you to know…

… that there is no such thing as conditional love. Love is either unconditional or it’s no love. You might like someone conditional on their personality or behavior or circumstances. But love accepts no boundaries. So never say ‘I love you because’, for love has no cause, love comes from God.