Heating with Heather

1. "With a parent, it's always guilt. You want to be there, but you kind of also want to be here." Tell us about a time where you had to be selfish with your time, and felt guilty about it (whether it was time taken from your children or a S/O).

No recalls absolutely. Probably when I had to spend an entire day at the salon, skipping work and family, getting pampering. Does that count?

2. "Sex appeal is not on purpose." Do you feel that you can create more sex appeal or that it's just a given?

I don’t think on those lines. I have an appeal of a magnetic and I think that is enough to pull no?

3. "One man is not enough." Has there ever been a time when monogamy seemed difficult?

hell no!

4. "I think I've always been good so God wouldn't strike me dead." Do your religious beliefs really influence your behavior?

My beliefs have made me who I am today and what I do is entirely based on my moral understanding.

5. "You just have to forgive them for being men." Do you feel there are some things in a S/O that you can't change because of their sex?

Change is permanent. It happens but over time. And in everyone it happens.

6. "When I look in the mirror I see the girl I was when I was growing up, with braces, crooked teeth, a baby face and a skinny body." Do you see a younger less secure person when you gaze in the mirror?

No, and oldie who needs to plan her life accordingly.

7. “I was a pregnant vixen.” If you have ever been pregnant, or have been with a woman who was, how did effect your sex life?

No clue about that.

8. “Everything needs to be worked on...” What would you like to work on to become a better person?

My ability to tolerate and forget. I have this darn good memory and I am not pleased with it usually.

9. "From an early age, I was aware of what America meant, and how the Marines at Camp Pendleton were ready to defend us at a moment's notice. I also remember what fabulous bodies those troops had." When did you think that you understood the sacrifices that people in the military make on behalf of their country?

After I started reading the history of my country and writing my version of it with heart and soul. But it still remains that I am patriotically challenged.

10. "The bigger the better. Do I dare say that!?" In your experience, is there truth here?

No. Happiness Comes in Small Packages.