Go Your Own Way

1. When was the last time you were told to go your own way?

My heart tells me to do that after every 5 mins.

2. What one experience has strengthened your character the most so far?

My Divorce, from years ago.

3. What's your favorite thing to do on a rainy day?

To get Wet and Wild!

4. How long can you go without your cell phone?

Probably forever!

5. Do you wish you were somewhere else right now?

Yes, in the arms of a husband - dozed off on a Sunday!

6. Of all the people you've ever known, who have you most feared?

I haven't feared humans. But I do admit I was a little scared of my ex-husband's temper.

7. Do people tell you that you look your age?

Some say I look older, some say I look younger - no one says I look my age.

8. Your ex shows up randomly at your house, what do you say?

I say nothing - just bang the door on his face :)

9. Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?

No everyone. Yes there are exceptions but EVERYONE is just too random!

I Want to Hold Your Hand

1. What do you notice about other people's hands?
How smooth they are and how clean the nails are!

2. If someone was nosing around your house, what would you hope they wouldn't see?
Now I can't spill it here as an invite to have someone snoop around :P

3. Do you think that the more stuff you own enhances your life or adds to your burden?
Adds to the burden and so I spring clean often

4. What was the last movie you saw in the theatre?
I saw.... I don't remember... it has been ages! But it was some bollywood flick

5. What do you have under your bed?
my suitcases

6. What do you think your s/o or best friend would say about what makes you unique?
They'd day my ability to be selfless without asking

7. What's your current favorite TV commercial?
The coca cola commercial as always and there is a song commercial from zong!

8. Who do you owe a phone call to?
No one - I owe no such thing to no one!

9. Do you know about my friend's new meme Wednesday Wickedness? Will you give it a try this week just for me? Please? :)
I know it and I tried it :) it is great. Check it out here

Kicks (Keep Getting Harder to Find)

1. As you get older, do you find that kicks are harder to find?
kicks?

2. Who is your favorite relative and why?
my little 3 year old cousin, because she makes me feel mommy!

3. Who is the most important person in your life?
At the moment me, myself and I - we three are unitedly important!

4. Name one thing you used to do that you are not proud of.
I used to fall for stupid 'i love yous' and 'i like yous' but now I think I have grown out of it forever

5. Tell us about the furthest you've ever been from what you consider "home".
I have travelled across continents and been from one end to another - that is how far

6. Who would you want to be locked in a room with for 24 hours?
I want that only with someone special and that someone special has not appeared yet

7. What are you doing this weekend?
I am going to go to my tailor, get my clothes stitched before back to work next thursday!

8. Other than your own, whose car were you in last?
I was in my mom's car almost 6 hours yesterday!

9. Tell us about the last compliment that you've received.
just today in the morning
"i dnt know if u'd believe me. but i am serious..
ur an awesome girl. and i adore u so much.... always looked for a person lik u ... if uwant to ask hw would u know abt me, well i can easily decipher from ur writings... i read almost most of urposts..... anad i have fallen in love with them and u,cos of that :)" (is that a compliment?)

Have I Told You Lately That I Love You

1. When was the last time (in a romantic setting) you have told someone that you loved them?
hahaha... no recall absolutely

2. Tell us about your very first romantic kiss.
There is nothing to tell, I was madly in love with him and he approached and it was all spontaneous. It still lingers.

3. What was/is your idea of the perfect date?
It is more like they show in the movies but without all the sex.

4. What music would you prefer when you are “getting it on”?
I like music of all kind especially when the lyrics sets in with the mood.

5. What is the most amazing experience you’ve ever shared with a partner?
I have had ample. I took days off from work, actually we both did and we flew out of city without telling anyone about it.

6. Sex is best saved for: love, marriage, alcohol, days that end in “y”?
Sex is best saved for days that end in 'y' :D

7. Have you ever kissed a stranger?
Yes I have but that stranger was my husband.

8. What's missing from your life?
Some love and some passion and some commitment.

9. Are you a giver or taker?
A little of both. I can't do one way constantly!

Hurts So Good

1. Tell us about the last time you really got hurt.
Ans. I never remember the most and the lest variations, Yes I have been hurt but healed at least from my head so I don't recall.

2. What's your oldest possession?
My skin, I have worn it for 27 years now and I still fit.

3. Do you have any phobias?
I hate closed spaces, that includes people closing in.

4. What values did your parents instill in you?
They have instilled a good lot of values but what stands above all is, 'Don't try to settle scores with anyone who wronged you, leave it to God'.

5. What are your plans for Easter?
Just take a seat back and hatch eggs.

6. I like sun more than snow.
No. I never have experienced snow so I love it.

7. Tell us about 3 fads from your teenage years.
ankle-rolled socks, braided hair, a fitted uniforms.

8. Tell us what is the most important attribute in a lover.
He should be a lover.

9. What new piece of technology have you resisted buying and what would it take for you to change your mind?
Blackberry - I need to be able to afford it.

Your Smiling Face

1. No matter what's going on in your life, what always makes you smile?
A thought of him, even if I have to steal a moment!

2. What's the biggest lie you've ever told?
That I have never lied!

3. Do you hold a grudge?
Sometimes I think I do against myself. Other times I am thinking if I do.

4. What is the worst job you've ever had?
The job of a 39 day wife aka house cleaner.

5. What would be your dream job?
To be a housewife to a man who knows I am his equal.

6. What is the happiest event you've experienced?
My convocation!

7. What is the saddest thing you've experienced?
Breakup with my best friend.

8. Do you tend to exaggerate or underestimate?
Sometimes. I think I am human enough.

9. List the cars that you have owned. Give us just a few words about each one.
None I have owned personally. It always has been DAD's car!

Should I Stay or Should I Go

1. Have you ever been on a date and you had to tell the person to just go away?
Ans. NO

2. Do you wish you were someplace else right now? If yes, where?
Ans. Yes, with my long-distance love

3. Do you have any pet peeves?
Ans. I hate people who don't read signs of being unwanted!

4. Tell us about a guilty pleasure of yours.
Ans. I am a shopaholic

5. If you could change places and become a celebrity, who would you'd like to be?
Ans. Charlize Theron

6. What do you consider your biggest talent?
Ans. Writing

7. Do you have a favorite actor/actress that is not a big star, yet they are your favorite?
Ans. Yes he is Rajat Kapoor from Indian Cinema but for me he is really big!

8. Name your five favorite bands of all time.
Ans. BSB, Linkin Park, Nickelback, Goo Goo Dolls, Solid Harmony

9. If you were to start a new relationship (for whatever reason), how much of your sexual history would you share? Would you resort to lying?
Ans. I don't have that much of history but if he is curious, I'd tell him to let the past be in the past cuz I surly wouldn't want to know his details!

Don't Stand So Close to Me

1. Who would you like not to stand so close to you?
At this very moment ALL PEOPLE AT MY WORK PLACE

2. Which of the following aspects of your life would you think rates the highest: mind, body or spirit?
My Mind!

3. What is your favorite movie line?
You can't live your life for other people. You've got to do what's right for you, even if it hurts some people you love. ~ The Notebook

4. What is your favorite movie title?
Life or Something Like it

5. What is something that has happened to you that you would consider a miracle?
I came out of a failed marriage much earlier than most people do.

6. What do you try to stay away from?
Negative Influences of Any Kind

7. What is it too late for?
Too late for hunting down love.

8. Give someone credit for something and name it if you can.
I give credit for my whole sole being, everything that is better in me than a million others is all I owe to my parents and their education. They have been the best in everything.

9. Would you rather be famous now & forgotten after you die or forgotten now & famous after you die, forever? And why?
I don't like to be thought about after I die. I'd like to be famous now if possible.

It's a beautiful Morning!

1. Are you a morning person?
Truly and Deeply! My head alarm goes off at 8 a.m. every day!

2. Tell us of a news story that truly shocked you.
Nothing shocks me, I am anti shock! :D

3. What was your very first job?
I was an assistant librarian for kids at my own school.

4. What characteristics do you despise?
I don't like people with unnecessary attitude. I think we all have it but not we all know how to flaunt it!

5. To where would you retire?
Hmmmm good Q. I think I am in retirement already!

6. Are you named after anyone?
Yes, some character in a drama serial.

7. How do you release anger?
I write and I blog!

8. Do you use sarcasm a lot?
It is my middle name **wink

9. What is your least favorite thing about yourself?
I don't have much faith in me like everyone has in me. Truly I am working hard on that every day!

I Think We're Alone Now

1. What celebrity in a fantasy would you like to be alone with?
Shahrukh Khan or Shahid Kapoor or Hugh Jackman

2. Have ever dated a good friend?
Not really dated but we did go out a lot together. It was confusing.

3. What is the most embarrassing song that you like?
Chumma Chumma de de (Chumma is the weirdest way to say ‘Kiss’)

4. What is your favorite tear jerker movie?
Nights in Rodanthe

5. What about yourself makes you least secure?
My destiny. My fate.

6. Do you believe in destiny?
I think I do but now I am not too sure

7. What 'issue' do you think your opinion is so right about that you end up trying to sway others to your point of view?
In my religion, drinking is forbidden because it makes you lose consciousness and control. I say I will drink in the presence of my husband because whatever I do after I am drunk will be with someone who is my legal partner in life.

8. What are 5 things you don't care about?
- my job
- how rich my husband will be
- nosy relatives
- loud mouths
- society status

9. Have you ever been in a situation where you weren't sure if you were seducing or being seduced?
lol. Yes I think I have been there.

When We Was Fab

1. Is there a blog as far as its appearance goes that you think is the most fabulous?
I really like some of the blogs. I can't pinpoint them because they mostly have a great appearance. NO I AM NOT BEING DIPLOMATIC.

2. Do you like the look and the contents of your blogs?
Absolutely. All my blogs.

3. Have you ever thought what would happen to your blog in case you died?
I did give it a thought and I concluded that people who read me can keep reading what I scribbled forever because it will always be there. Something to remember me by.

4. Has any particular blogger had a great impact on how you set up and write your blog?
I get inspired by a few national bloggers. How they take up on the existing scenario and blog about it. Tazeen is one of them but that really hasn't had me scribble on the same lines. I just envy her once in a while :)

5. Would you want a fellow blogger to give you suggestions or criticism of what you write?
They all do mostly and some actually are quite blunt.

6. Is the number of visitors each day to your blog important to you?
It is actually. I like to get reviews on my work. I do work like an author. I need feedback.

7. What percentage of your readers do you think actual comment?
The ratio of those who follow me and those who comment is like 10:50 and no I am not kidding.

8. Do you have a favorite blogger who does the memes that you participate in?
I would not name one because I think all excel in memes and do a neat deed with it.

9. How often do you update your blog/site and why?
Every other day it is updated. Consecutively on Wednesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday! Because I love doing memes.

You shook me

1. What celebrity would you just want to shake some sense into?
There are a dozen of them.

2. What do you think comes after death?
Life after death, either in hell or heaven!

3. What is the first book that you can remember reading by yourself as a child?
Hmm actually Jane n Peter series!

4. What was the first rock concert that you attended?
A local band junoon!

5. If you were to suddenly become famous, would you choose a stage name? If yes, what would it be?
Americanising Desi

6. What is the one thing that you wish the media would stop talking about?
Politicians!

7. If you could be part of any band, which one would it be and who would you be and why?
Nickelback and as me!

8. Do you live close to your immediate family members? If not, how far away are they?
Live with them.

9. Last seasonal question (promise): What did you do on New Year's Eve?
Iwatch a whole lot of T.v.

Saturday 9: Sam's Last Stand of 2009

1. What did you think of 2009?
It just flew by and I had no time to stop and admire anything around me

2. What do you think was the news story of the year?
There were no stories, my country has been going through a terrible time and I pray it comes out of the misery soon.

3. What happened this year that you never want to hear another word about?
Too many deaths and bloodshed all around.

4. What was your favorite song of 2009?
Gotta be somebody- nickelback

5. What did you accomplish this year?
Just another year added to my life.

6. Did you learn anything new this year?
Yes. That time is not my best friend.

7. What are you looking forward to in the new year?
A lot. I am always high on expectations with every new year.

8. What are your plans for New Year's Eve?
Sit home and watch t.v.

9. What's the best thing you ever did on a New Year's Eve?
Nothing as yet.

Talking in Your Sleep

1. Has anyone in your life talked in their sleep?
Yup my Grandma

2. What do you like about fall?
It is pleasant than the other months. Nothing too extreme about it.

3. Do you have an addictive personality?
I should ask those whom I meet.

4. Who was the last person to do something extra special for you?
Neil, just a facebook friend and I haven't even met him.

5. Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I don't know my reaction to something which hasn't happened before my eyes.

6. Are you happy with where you are in life?
Not really happy but happy that my time isn't over yet.

7. Do you believe that you can change someone?
Yes. I have had that chance and honor.

8. Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes, my best friend. I prayed and I tried convincing him in indirect ways but never took the clue.

9. Would you ever fight someone over your significant other?
DEFINITELY!

Be True to Your School

1. What was your favorite subject in high school?
Additional Mathematics

2. Do you watch reality shows? Which ones?
No time for reality on TV

3. What's your favorite all time reality show?
None

4. Do you feel "reality" shows are real or are they faked?
I don't bother putting my mind to it

5. What did you look like when you were a teenager?
A retarded malnourished girl

6. Whose advice do you listen to?
My innerself

7. How often are you sick?
Many time in a year

8. Do you like or dislike change?
I like it esp when I know it is for the better

9. How many times in your life have you had a broken heart?
Twice. Once when my hubby left and second when my best friend left

Hey Jealousy

1. Tell us a story when you got jealous.
When when when I saw my friend and her long time boy friend get hitched :)

2. What is your least favorite thing about yourself?
I hate the anger and frustration in me.

3. Who do you mess with the most?
God I suppose. That is why things so always seem fallen apart.

4. Do you have any special talents? What are they?
I can walk into a trap and make a lot of stupid blunders.

5. If you could have a secret fling that no one would ever find out about, would you?
No thanks. I am not that much of an idiot.

6. What's the furthest you've been from home?
How about from the subcontinent to the USA!

7. How many Saturday 9 player's blogs do you typically visit?
As many as I can. Never kept count.

8. Some great bloggers lose their "mojo" and quit blogging. Could you see that happening to you?
Not so soon. NO

9. What's the biggest mistake you've made so far this year?
I think my biggest copy writing mistake this year was to mis mark the calendar dates. Silly Stupid me!

Let's Go to Bed

1. Has a relationship been effected by how one of you slept?
Hell NO!

2. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
The right side

3. Do you sleep on your back, side, or stomach?
Usually on my stomach when I am alone, on my side I used to sleep when with him

4. Describe the bedding on your bed right now. How does it change with the seasons? Are you particular about your pillows or linens?
I am very choosy and picky when it comes to bedsheets and spreads. My choices are as follows:





5. When sleeping with someone, do you hog the bed, steal covers, or snore?
No. None. I sleep in my space and I take very little place when I sleep.

6. What do you wear to bed? If it varies, explain.
I wear pajamas because I am single now. When I was married it went from pajamas to night gown

7. No matter how much you love someone, would you rather sleep alone?
No. I totally disagree!

8. Tell us about a time when you awoke in bed, saw the person next to you and thought, "Oh, no..."
Haha! Never!

9. Tell us about a time when you awoke thinking it was a different day than it was.
mmmm NEVA!

Saturday 9: I Call Your Name

1. If you could have named yourself, which name would you have chosen, and why?
I would have named myself Evana. In Latin it means "God is Gracious".

2. If you could relive a year in your life, what age would it be, and why?
I hate to rewind but just because this is a question and I hate to be a spoil sport I'd choose 6.

3. If you could go back and change one friendship in your past, who would it have been, and why?
The friendship with my ex best friend. I don't know the details but I kinda wish things had been different, but none the less it is history now.

4. If you could have dated one person in your past that you did not date, who would it be, and why?
Actually I dated once and I dated him who I wanted to, so there is no IF.

6. If you had the opportunity to live in another country, which one would it be, and why? If you choose NOT to live in another country, why do you want to stay in your current country?
I would choose Switzerland. I still don't understand why they don't have an army and that inspires me to be there and live to know.

7. If you could choose your dream job, what would it be, and why?
A housewife... PERIOD! I know I am made for the job, just that no one is willing to give me a chance to prove it.

8. If you could wish a wish and it be guaranteed to come true (other than riches) what would it be, and why?

A wish to start my ever after with the man I will have my kids with. lol.

9. If you could meet two blogger friends (you may choose more, if you wish) who would they be?

I already met two and though I was not wishing to meet them but I am so totally disappointed that I am opting to keep all this virtual.

Saturday 9: The Last Time

1. When was the last time you bought something for someone else, and what was it?
A. Day before yesterday I bought my sister's favorite wallet for her. It has a white cow on it and hence she fell in love.

2. When was the last time you complimented someone, and what was their reaction?
A. hmm I don't recall this one, maybe because I do it so often and almost everyone has something that I notice and compliment. Their reaction usually is "Awwww thank you so much".

3. When was the last time you had to return a purchase to the store? What was it and why?
A. I returned a pair of shoes because the heels were wobbly.

4. When was the last time you had an ice cream cone?
A. no cones. I had fudge in a cup.

5. When was the last time you had to go to the doctor's office?
A. I have to go now because I let the wind chime screw my eye.

6. When was the last time you were embarrassed by something you did? What was it and what happened?
A. hmmm I havent done something like that in a long while.

7. When was the last time a stranger was kind to you?
A. Maybe yesterday or even today. They are usually kind.

8. When was the last time you locked yourself out of your home? What did you do?
A. Oh that was long ago. I have been a careful woman.

9. When was the last time you thought about cheating (on anything, a test or a person)?
A. mmmm not ever I suppose.

Mind Fart #31

Hey AD

In my opinion, you’re one of the best person ever. People are generally a tick off so a person like you probably doesn’t understand the greatness about you, but I do, finally. However, I get the feeling you don’t think I get you, I mean really there are times that I don't but that isn't all the time. The government of the country leaves you mad and the people with hypocrisy written all over them tick you off and the so called Muslims tag you wrong but that is understood about you. You are not all that hard to figure out. You make the best points about most things, and I always can relate to you, but once again, I get the feeling you think less of me and you. You possess a lot of talents that anyone would want to take up and apply. You’re a great person. Just keep knowing that and the rest will be great.

Sincerely AD