Sing with King

Today we picked Stephen King. Here's Wednesday Wickedness!

1. “I tend to scare myself…”
When was the last time you scared yourself?

I scared myself when I almost talked my self into a commitment based on compromise

2. “Time heals all wounds…”
What was the longest it took you to recover from an illness, injury or surgery?

I am still healing from a couple of broken bonds - It shall heal with time

3. “Your first impulse is to share good news. Your second is to club someone over the head with it…”
What was the last good news you had to share?

I shared the news of a recipe success "Espresso Bavarian"

4. “When it comes to the past, we all stack the deck…”
Is there something in your past you speak highly of that was not so great while you were going through it?

I talk about everything which makes who I am today - my mistakes made me stronger and better! And in everything that happened I was a culprit too!

5. “Do you drink? Of course! I just said I was a writer!..”
What do you need to drink to do?

To do what? Write? Word Soup :)

6. “If you liked being a teenager, then there’s something really wrong with you…”
What did you like about being a teenager?

I never liked being a teenager. I wasn't the mod cool teen!

7. “Nobody likes a clown at midnight…”
What do you like at midnight?

I go completely insane and I can't sleep then ;)

8. “It is the tale, not he who told it…”
Who is your favorite teller of tales or jokes?

hmmm there was a friend but no more

9. “The trust of the innocent is the liar’s most useful tool…”
Were you ever conned or fooled into a scam?

No - not that I recall

10. “If fear cannot be articulated, then it can’t be conquered…”
What do you fear?

I fear to celebrate my 30th birthday alone

Martin Luther King, Jr. Wickedness

1. “A lie cannot live.” When was the last time you felt you were forced to lie?

When I had to keep my marriage from breaking 3 years ago

2. “A man who won't die for something is not fit to live.” What, besides the lives of your family, would you be willing to die for?

I don’t think anyone else deserves it except family

3. “A right delayed is a right denied.” Are there rights or freedoms that you’d give up to be safer?

Yes – how about the right to step out of home to work – I sure would like to stay in and work

4. “All progress is precarious, and the solution of one problem brings us face to face with another problem.” When was the last time that you solved a problem of yours just to create another?

Hahaha – you think I am nuts? Of course never!

5. “Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase.” What do you have faith in?

I have faith in the UNSEEN

6. “I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word in reality. This is why right, temporarily defeated, is stronger than evil triumphant.” Do you believe things in generally will usually win out?

Every beginning has a favorable end is what I say!

7. “In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.” When was the last time that you spoke out to help someone that you didn’t have to?

A lot of situations like that occur and eventually I block them out so I don’t end up saying unnecessary stuff

8. “It is not enough to say we must not wage war. It is necessary to love peace and sacrifice for it.” Do you envision a time where the United States will not be at war? Why?

I don’t know – if they just mind their own business

9. “Never succumb to the temptation of bitterness.” Is there anything that you are bitter about that you cannot get over?

Mmm I am bitter about the future that aint coming grr!

10. “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.” Do you take chances by speaking up even when it could cost you something?

Hmmmm yes – I do take a chance and then say sorry too :D

Wise with William

1. “I've had lots of kids come up and ask for my autograph, I've had a grandmother stop me and ask me if I know a good place to buy underwear.” Where do you buy your underwear?

I call it lingerie and I buy it from where I have for 6 years :P

2. “I'm always open for people saying I'm wrong because most of the time I am.” How often are you wrong?

Thanks to Almighty 3/10 times probably!

3. “Harry can paint but I can't. He has our father's talent while I, on the other hand, am about the biggest idiot on a piece of canvas. I did do a couple of drawings at Eton which were put on display. Teachers thought they were examples of modern art, but in fact, I was just trying to paint a house!” What was the last thing that you drew?

I drew a design for my dress which of course was more of an illustration in pencil!

4. “I do think I am a country boy at heart. I love the buzz of towns and going out with friends and sitting with them drinking and whatever -- it's fun -- but, at the same time, I like space and freedom.” How would you describe yourself?

Sober n Sarcastic

5. “I remember her as being a huge inspiration to me, someone to really look up to and admire.” He’s talking about his mom. Who do you admire?

I loveeee my dad and so admire him and mommmmmmm she is just the best - so two big inspirations in the house!

6. “I think it's very important that you make your own decision about what you are. Therefore you're responsible for your actions, so you don't blame other people.” How do you think you are about taking responsibility for your actions?

I am always the first one to step up if something I do goes down in a boo boo!

7. “My guiding principles in life are to be honest, genuine, thoughtful and caring.” What are your guiding principles?

I have one principle 'be the person you seek and everything else will be perfecto!'

8. “Only the mad girls chase me, I think.” When you were, or if you are, single: What type of people chased you?

I chased the eligible sorts, with good educational backgrounds and decent looks!

9. “I don't deliberately select my friends because of their background. If I enjoy someone's company, then that's all that counts. I have many different friends who aren't from the same background as me and we get on really well -- it's brilliant.” How do you select your friends?

I don't select them, they just become friends!

10. “People say it's not ambitious, but it is actually quite ambitious wanting to help people.” When was the last time that you volunteered to help people?

Been forever! don't recall!

Mornin with Monroe

1. "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." When are you are at you’re best?

At my best amid pleasurable excess!!!

2. "Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." Do you ever think that you are boring?

Yes I think so when my parents decline my within limits socializing with friends! And I just have to say no to them!

3. "A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left." Did you ever break off a relationship because you wanted to be the one to do it?`

No! never been the first one!

4. "It's better to be unhappy alone than unhappy with someone." Do you feel that she is correct?

I don’t think I can be unhappy with someone – it is alone that I am unhappy because happiness is a state of mind and if worded upon and developed you find a way to be happy!

5. "Ever notice how 'What the hell' is always the right answer?" What was the last thing that you didn’t plan on doing but then thought, “What the hell!”?

Last night’s get together with two of my besties. Just had dinner plans at the spur of the moment even when I was broke!

6. "We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid. So are regrets." Do you have any major regrets?

Yes I do, I am me and sometimes that gets to me!

7. "What do I wear in bed? Why, Chanel No. 5, of course." What do you wear to bed?

I wear my Pjs and T-shirt!

8. "It’s better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what your not." Have you ever pretended to be someone you are not because it was easier?

No! I had enough of that in the past – I m totally me now!

9. "I am invariably late for appointments - sometimes as much as two hours. I've tried to change my ways but the things that make me late are too strong, and too pleasing." Are you usually on time for events or appointments?

I am always on time!

10. "Keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about." What makes you smile?

Love makes me Smile.

Jiggin with Jagger

Today we picked Mick Jagger. Here's Wednesday Wickedness!

1. “A good thing never ends.” Have you ever had a good thing in your life that never ended?

With God's Grace I still have me and my family together and that is the best thing in life to date for always (InshaALLAH)

2. “I got nasty habits, I take tea at three.” Do you have an nasty habits?

Yes I do, I really get my emotions to my head and that makes my brain cease logic - which then gets me into trouble!

3. “I'd rather be dead than to be singing Satisfaction at 45.” He obviously changed his mind. What is something that you still do that you thought you' outgrow?

I am as stubborn as a kid when it comes to pleading for something I need from parents or elders. I don't give up until I have it and that really is a turn off!

4. “Lose your dreams and lose your mind.” Have you lost any of your dreams as time went by?

I hold to my dreams like my breaths.

5. “I haven't had time to return to the scene because I never left it.” As you've grown older, what ways are you still act and think the way you did as when you were younger?

I still think Fairy Tales are Life Stories - they teach us more than happy endings !

6. “Patriotism is something that fades when the war starts.” How do you react to this quote?

Patriotism never fades, only becomes challenged in different times and situations.

7. “The past is a great place and I don't want to erase it or regret it, but I don't want to be its prisoner either.” Is there a person in your life who still treats you as the same person to when your were younger? Do you like it?

My dad does that. He is always treating me like a little girl who will lose her way if I don't hold on to his hand and seek his direction. I have to tell him all the time to trust me with my decisions!

8. “It's all right letting yourself go, as long as you pull yourself back.” Have you let yourself go in any aspect of your life?

Yes I have and I cannot tell you why or when but then I pulled myself back and out of it :)

9. “My mother has always been unhappy with what I do. She would rather I do something nicer, like being a brick layer.” How do you parents feel about what you do?

They are happy about what I do, always encourage me to test my limits in my profession and career.

10. “Anarchy is the only slight glimmer of hope.” How would you categorize your political point of view?

I am politically challenged ;)

Playing with ELLEN

1. "I was coming home from kindergarten--well they told me it was kindergarten. I found out later I had been working in a factory for ten years. It's good for a kid to know how to make gloves." How old were you when you started working and what was your first job?

I was 21 and my first job was as a school librarian (for grade 1-3). It was fun.

2. "My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she was sixty. She's ninety-seven now, and we don't know where the hell she is." Tell us about your grandparents.

I don't have grand-dads anymore but they were gems. My grand mommys are there and I thank God that they are, life could be so miracle less without their presence :)

3. "Procrastination isn't the problem, it's the solution. So procrastinate now, don't put it off." Do you procrastinate or are you on top of the situations?

I am human so I do procrastination when I am lazy and am on the top of things when enthusiastic :)

4. "Sometimes you can't see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others." What would others say about you?

I wish I knew - but probably they'll say I am vain.

5. "The only thing that scares me more than space aliens is the idea that there aren't any space aliens. We can't be the best that creation has to offer. I pray we're not all there is. If so, we're in big trouble" Do you believe in life on other planets?

Not human life at least.

6. "I'm a godmother, that's a great thing to be, a godmother. She calls me god for short, that's cute, I taught her that." Do you have a godchild?

NOPES!

7. "I don't understand the sizes anymore. There's a size zero, which I didn't even know that they had. It must stand for: 'Ohhh my God, you're thin.'" When was the last time that you were called too thin?

I was never too thin - just healthy enough.

8. "I have the worst memory ever so no matter who comes up to me - they're just, like, 'I can't believe you don't remember me!" I'm like, 'Oh Dad I'm sorry!'" Who was the last person that you should have recognized but didn't?

No one - :P

9. "I gotta work out. I keep saying it all the time. I keep saying I gotta start working out. It's been about two months since I've worked out. And I just don't have the time. Which uh..is odd. Because I have the time to go out to dinner. And uh..and watch tv. And get a bone density test. And uh.. try to figure out what my phone number spells in words." Do you work out? Have you ever joined a gym and quit almost immediately?

I have and had results from it. Now I do it at home.

10. 'We use 10 percent of our brains. Imagine how much we could accomplish if we used the other 60 percent."
Do you feel that you utilize all your intelligence in every situation?

My heart has the power to decide too.

Guage with George

1. "But why shouldn't I speak out? Don't you speak out in this country?"
Do you speak out as often as you should?

All the time - every time, unless I have to avoid causing brutal pain!

2. "I am tough. Sometimes I'm unreasonable. I have to catch myself every once in a while."
Are you ever tough and unreasonable?

My hormones are major fluctuating - yes I am tough some times and unreasonable too all the time.

3. "I haven't always done a good job, and I haven't always been successful - but I know that I have tried."
Do you believe that sometimes you learn more from a failure than a success?

Failure is a better experience than success - with failure comes the ability, with success comes achievement! both valid in their state.

4. "Winning is the most important thing in my life, after breathing. Breathing first, winning next."
Do you feel that you always have to win?

Hahaha yes if I want to believe - I have - but then there are the losses too!

5. "It is unbelievable to me that the highest-paid team in baseball would start the season in such a deep funk.”
Do you think money always buys greatness?

Ofcourse it does. Hollywood says it all :P

6. "I take my last phone call at home at about 11pm."
What time is too late to call you?

My best friends can call me anytime. Others just never!

7. "Don't talk to me about aesthetics or tradition. Talk to me about what sells and what's good right now."
Do you think tradition matters?

Yes they do. They shape me as I am today.

8. "And what the American people like is to think the underdog still has a chance."
Do you tend to root for the underdog?

huh whaa!

9. "I don't think I ever could exceed my father's successes. He was a completely satisfied man, he knew what he wanted to accomplish and he accomplished it. I did do a lot, though, to try to please him."
Do you ever feel that you want to exceed your parents successes?

There is one expectation left to fulfill and that is get married!

10. "I'm really 95 percent Mr. Rogers, and only 5 percent Oscar the Grouch."
In terms of cartoon characters, who are you like?

Garfield ;)

Pitter Patter with Pattinson

1. "I don't really see the point in washing your hair. If you don't care if your hair's clean or not then why would you wash it?"
How often do you wash your hair?
Once in two days!

2. "I take way too long to get dressed, like way too long. But only for things like shows or if I have to do public appearances. Like, I’m ridiculous, I’ll keep getting changed and getting changed and then I’ll just put on the same thing I wore the day before."
Do you take longer to dress for a special event?
Yes Indeed! but for all Occasions!

3. "My dad's a car dealer, but I grew up in London, so I always say I don't drive…I get driven. I got a driving lesson in Oregon, and then I bought a car in L.A. and I basically learned how to drive by people honking at me. I'm terrible at driving."
Are you a good driver?
Who wants to drive went you have the pleasure of being driven around in comfort!

4. "I don't spend any money. The only thing I've really bought is my car, which cost $1,500 and keeps exploding. It would be nice to buy a house for my parents, but at the same time my parents are so comfortable where they live; they would probably just feel like it was a burden. I wear the same clothes every day and the only thing I used to splurge on was DVDs."
If you had his money, what would be the first thing you spent it on?
Some terrific shoe and bag shopping!

5. "I aspire to be Jack Nicholson. I love every single mannerism. I used to try and be him in virtually everything I did, I don't know why. I watched One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest when I was about 13, and I dressed like him. I tried to do his accent. I did everything like him. I think it's kind of stuck with me."
Who is your favorite actor?
Leonardo diCaprio is at the time being someone who can act and take your heart away!

6. "Someone stole my shoelaces once from my shoes. I still wear them and never put laces in them - they're like my trademark shoes now!"
Have you ever changed your appearance because of a random happenstance?
Nopes - not ever so random!

7. "I never really considered myself attractive. I was always kind of gangly in school."
Do you consider yourself attractive?
Yes I do, very much!

8. "I definitely want to record an album, direct a film and start my own religion. I definitely wouldn’t have to pay taxes anymore.”
If you started your own religion, what would it be like?
I don't have to, I am happy with mine.

9. "I do bear some similarities in the sense that I’m not good at romance. I also think I lack basic finesse when it comes to women. I give up too easily even if I’m very attracted to someone."
Have you ever given up too easily in the game of love?
Nopes. It always has been till the very end!

10. " I don’t want to disappoint girls who might think I’m very cool and smooth, which I’m not, I’m afraid. I’m still quite shy, although that seems to be something of an attraction for women."
Are you, or have you ever been attracted to shy people?
Can't recall!

No Goo goo with Ga ga

1. "Peace. it does not mean to be in a place where there is no trouble, noise, or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart."

Do you keep your cool no matter what is going on around you?

Lately I have been PMSing way too much and that makes me impatient, hence I lose my cool instantly!

2. "Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you're wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore."
Do you feel that career should be more important than your love life?

Absolutely - Something should be there when love dies (which happens eventually)

3. "You have to be unique, and different, and shine in your own way."
In what way(s) do you feel that you are unique?

I am me and there is no one like me - that's it!

4. "I want women -- and men -- to feel empowered by a deeper and more psychotic part of themselves. The part they're always trying desperately to hide. I want that to become something that they cherish."
Do you feel that there is a part of you that you need to hide from most people?

Yes - people are hypocrites and very mean. They like to dress up and walk to parties with others, but watch as they get drunk and wasted and then make headlines about it! (p.s. this has nothing to do with my personal experience, just metaphorically speaking)

5. "Love is like a brick. You can build a house, or you can sink a dead body."
Have you ever held on to a relationship even though you truly knew it was already over?

Yes and wasted years over it - truly it was a learning experience I'll never forget!

6. "Sometimes in life you don't always feel like a winner, but that doesn't mean you're not a winner, you want to be like yourself."
Would your friends say that you are a winner in this game of life?

Lol! ask my friends, probably they'll know this one better!

7. "A glamorous life is quite different to a life of luxury. I don’t need luxury. For years, I was practically broke but I was still very vain and glamorous. And I still am."
Can you tell us about a time when you were broke and yet still happy?

Right now :D I am totally broke and no kidding!

8. "I’m single right now and I’ve chosen to be single because I don’t have the time to get to know anybody. So it’s okay not to have sex, it’s okay to get to know people. I’m celibate. Celibacy’s fine."
Do you think staying celibate between relationships important?

Very- always!

9. "Fight and push harder for what you believe in, you'd be surprised, you are much stronger than you think."
Tell us about an incident where you were stronger than you thought you were.

My divorce!

10. "I lie in bed and try to pray and breathe. I have a very overactive mind. I’m the sort of person who’d never take medication to calm myself. It’s maddening. But I love what comes out."
Do you feel that you always have the ability to calm yourself?

I am the only one who has it and then I turn to God!

Heating with Heather

1. "With a parent, it's always guilt. You want to be there, but you kind of also want to be here." Tell us about a time where you had to be selfish with your time, and felt guilty about it (whether it was time taken from your children or a S/O).

No recalls absolutely. Probably when I had to spend an entire day at the salon, skipping work and family, getting pampering. Does that count?

2. "Sex appeal is not on purpose." Do you feel that you can create more sex appeal or that it's just a given?

I don’t think on those lines. I have an appeal of a magnetic and I think that is enough to pull no?

3. "One man is not enough." Has there ever been a time when monogamy seemed difficult?

hell no!

4. "I think I've always been good so God wouldn't strike me dead." Do your religious beliefs really influence your behavior?

My beliefs have made me who I am today and what I do is entirely based on my moral understanding.

5. "You just have to forgive them for being men." Do you feel there are some things in a S/O that you can't change because of their sex?

Change is permanent. It happens but over time. And in everyone it happens.

6. "When I look in the mirror I see the girl I was when I was growing up, with braces, crooked teeth, a baby face and a skinny body." Do you see a younger less secure person when you gaze in the mirror?

No, and oldie who needs to plan her life accordingly.

7. “I was a pregnant vixen.” If you have ever been pregnant, or have been with a woman who was, how did effect your sex life?

No clue about that.

8. “Everything needs to be worked on...” What would you like to work on to become a better person?

My ability to tolerate and forget. I have this darn good memory and I am not pleased with it usually.

9. "From an early age, I was aware of what America meant, and how the Marines at Camp Pendleton were ready to defend us at a moment's notice. I also remember what fabulous bodies those troops had." When did you think that you understood the sacrifices that people in the military make on behalf of their country?

After I started reading the history of my country and writing my version of it with heart and soul. But it still remains that I am patriotically challenged.

10. "The bigger the better. Do I dare say that!?" In your experience, is there truth here?

No. Happiness Comes in Small Packages.

Truce with Bruce

1. “When it comes to luck, you make your own.”
Do you believe you have that type of control over your luck?

Absolutely NOT

2. “You've got to learn to live with what you can't rise above.”
What is something you have had difficulty rising above?

My attachment with those non-existent in my life now!

3. “Poor men wanna be rich, rich men wanna be kings, and a king ain’t satisfied till he rules everything.”
Would you want to be rich?

Who wouldn't? Money talks baby!

4. “The best music is essentially there to provide you something to face the world with.”
Tell us about a song that helps you "face the world."

Gotta be Somebody by Nickelback

5. “In America everything's about who's number one today.”
Have you ever been a fan of someone you thought would last but turned out to be a flash in the pan?

Nopes ... I always know who'll hit it big ;)

6. “Is a dream a lie if it don't come true, or is it something worse?”
Has any dream of yours come true?

Yes, I am with a job that I love.

7. “Our American government has strayed too far from American values. It is time to move forward. The country we carry in our hearts is waiting.”
What would you change if you became the president?

I would change people.

8. "Yeah, I had gay friends. The first thing I realized was that everybody's different, and it becomes obvious that all of the gay stereotypes are ridiculous."
How do you feel about gay rights?

Absurd and unnecessary!

9. " It's a sad man my friend who's living in his own skin and can't stand the company."
Have you ever been disappointed in yourself?

Many times.

10. "The best music is essentially there to provide you something to face the world with."
What's your favorite type of music? What's your favorite band?

I like to have beats in my music, gives my heart a pump!

Let's get Frank, Frank!

1. “I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day.”
How often do you drink alcohol?
NEVER EVER!

2. “The best revenge is massive success.”
Have you ever gloated or wanted to over success?
YOU MEAN OVER SUCCEED ... NO! I JUST WANNA SUCCEED!

3. “You gotta love livin', baby, 'cause dyin' is a pain in the [butt].”
What do enjoy most about your life?
MY JOB IS FANTASTIC - IT KEEPS ME SANE.

4. “I'm not one of those complicated, mixed-up cats. I'm not looking for the secret to life.... I just go on from day to day, taking what comes.”
Do you ever overthink a situation in your life?
YES - WHEN THE HELL AM I TO WED!

5. “I would like to be remembered as a man who had a wonderful time living life, a man who had good friends, fine family - and I don't think I could ask for anything more than that, actually.”
Tell us about your best friend.
WHEN HE WAS THERE I NEEDED NO BODY ELSE IN THE WORLD.

6. “I like intelligent women. When you go out, it shouldn't be a staring contest.”
How important is intelligence when picking (or having picked) a s/o to you?
VERY IMPORTANT! WITHOUT HIS WIT AND INTELLIGENCE WE WOULDN't LAST AT ALL.

7. “I drink to the confusion of our enemies.”
What's the closest situation that you've had to dealing with an enemy?
SO CLOSE THAT SHE COULD STAB ME but I ESCAPED!

8. “Orange is the happiest color.”
What's your favorite color?
PEACH AND PINK!

9. “Dare to wear the foolish clown face.”
Are you ever a clown?
I AM! WHEN I AM HIGH!

10. “Don't get even, get mad.”
Have you ever tried getting even?
NO. FOR ME SILENCE IS THE BEST REVENGE!

No Well when Cowell

1. “If your lifeguard duties were as good as your singing, a lot of people would be drowning.” How well do you swim?

Swim? ha... I don't swim I make others swim ;)

2. “I think he knows how to articulate something that people are entertained by and still be true to the message he's trying to send, ... very aware of himself.” How self aware do you think you are?

I am pretty self aware to the extent that I know I have a tendency to have my foot in my mouth on many occasions

3. “If you've got a big mouth and you're controversial, you're going to get attention.” Who has a big mouth that you like?

I hate big mouths - they make me think that something went wrong when they were being delivered

4. “I think you have to judge everything based on your personal taste. And if that means being critical, so be it. I hate political correctness. I absolutely loathe it.” Do you believe in political correctness?

hahaha the absurdity of this correctness yes!

5. “I find Paula patronizing. It's as simple as that. Paula is more damaging than I am to these contestants because a lot of people just shouldn't be singing for a living.” Do you ever patronize people?

to an extent but never over the top. I am patriotically challenged by all means

6. “Not everybody is perfect, and I don't think we should be looking for perfect people.” Do you or someone you know strive constantly to be perfect?

I do. Because I live by going there where I see, falling short of no problem but not trying has all problems

7. “I never want to hear that song again. I cannot stand it. I'm allergic to it.” What song are you totally sick of and why?

I am sick of no song to dat. My choice of songs can always be played and replayed. I have good taste which never goes out of style

8. “I like the fact that they're cocky now from the age of four.” How old were you when you got cocky? What changed to make you so?

huh what is that?

9. “And there's more open hostility among them because the competition is so intense.” When you compete with someone, have you ever gotten hostile?

I have but in words. Some people know how to tick me off really!

10. “Why are you having a normal conversation with him? This is a dairy farmer dressed as a woman.” Do you talk differently to someone because of the way that they are dressed?

hehehe yea - I try to because those with their heads in their butts hardly ever understand me

Cheers to Wednesday Wickedness

A Twist with Swift

1. "I never want to change so much that people can't recognize me." Do you believe people can truly change?

Oh they always change - but mostly for the worse they do and they find such peace in it

2. "People haven't always been there for me but music always has." Do you have people in your life you could always count on?

I did once and now I don't think I want to count on anyone for xyz reasons

3. "I’m intimidated by the fear of being average." Do you think there is anything wrong with being average?

Not at all. Because no one is average - we all have something which is better than the rest!

4. "Never believe anyone who says you don't deserve what you want." Do you believe you deserve everything you want?

I do believe and hence I ask always

5. " I have to believe in fairy tales and I have to believe in love." Do you believe in fairy tale love?

Yes! and I am yet to make my fairy tale!

6. " I wouldn't want to date a pushover who would let me make all the plans and have all the control." Do you believe in sharing the control in your relationships?

yes. Not everything is one sided and so is power - in some things we all have to have a say

7. "Sometimes [finding new friends] is the best thing about dating. I've met so many friends through guys that I've dated. And now, the guys are gone but the girls are still around." Did you ever make a close friend from someone that you've dated?

No. I dont think that is ever a wise option

8. "But there are a lot of rumors out there that you just have to ignore." Has anyone ever spread something malicious about you?

Oh yes. there have been plenty of rats in my life... wonder why I had to be so popular

9. "I set goals that are just a little bit out of reach, but not totally out of reach." How do you go about setting your goals?

I set goals one day at a time - too far out isnt my kinda thing ever

10. " I remember seeing girls crying in the bathroom every Monday about what they did at a party that weekend. I never wanted to be that girl." Have you ever done something at a party that you've ever regretted?

Nopes. I am always sober :D

Wickedness with Pitt

1. "I've got a hard time with morals. All I know is what feels right, what's more important to me is being honest about who you are. Morals I get a little hung up on.” Do you ever have a hard time with morals?

Not if I know the difference between the right and the wrong :) It is tricky though because the wrong is always appealing and we find ways to justify but then I am good with it!

2. “Being married means I can [break wind] and eat ice cream in bed.” Do you eat in bed? If yes, what?

Of course I eat in bed. I had my dinner after gyming in bed. Yes the bed is more than just a place to make love.

3. “I phoned my grandparents and my grandfather said 'we saw your movie'. 'Which one?' I said. He shouted 'Betty, what was the name of that movie I didn't like?” What was the last movie you hated and why?

LOL. I don't quite remember bad movies because it is not very often I pick a bad one. Why waste time on bad when I know what good is huh?

4. “We made a plan at school to meet in her garage and kiss. It was like this little business deal. I kissed her and then I ran home.” Did you make 'a plan' the first time you made love or did it just happen?

mmmm It was spontaneous and hence the most miraculous of experiences. We acually felt sacred! at least I did! totally holy!

5. “You must lose everything in order to gain anything.” Have you ever felt that you lost it all? If yes, explain.

Of course I have. After losing so much in so long I am beginning to think I have actually gained the double of weight. And that to lose is such a fatigue!

6. “We did a little training in the beginning, ... But again, these guys aren't supposed to be skilled fighters.” When were you last time that you were in a fight (physical or not)?

I usually avoid fights and the last time I gave a silent treatment is ongoing at the moment!

7. “My week consists ... five days out of the seven I've got at least three cars of paparazzi on me that I've got to either lose or whatever.” Have you ever been stalked?

Hell yes! at this very moment I am being stalked and God knows what the pleasure is but the guy is psychotic and messed up in life! completely!

8. “I mean, that's the modified self-help version of the psychology, I guess.” Do you believe in 'self help' for problems, or do you prefer therapy?

I prefer both. When things get a little out of my hands, I am not shy to ask for help!

9. “Fame is a bitch, man.” Do you agree that fame is lousy or would you love to give it a try? Why?

I have fame, what do you think I have in this virtuality? It is all cool fame :D

10. “I have always been somebody that really wants to be married. And I don't know if that's just so I can do it differently than my parents did and prove marriage does work.” Do you believe in forever, as in 'love forever'?

HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOO I am a person of commitment and hence marriage is a sacred relationship which requires love forever and I am a believer!

Happiness

You can't wear it
You can't purchase it
You can't drive it
You can't sell it

Yes you can't have it forever even if you try and keep it locked away!

You think you can negotiate for it but you can't.

You can't win it
You can't marry it
You can't inherit it
You can't dial 911 for it

You can only live it.

Yes happiness is not a negotiation made on a round table conference.
It isn't a promise in a bonding.
It isn't that piece of diamond that you wear on your ring.
It isn't that fancy car you drive.

But it is surely the essence of every day when you have what no one does.
You have a partner who loves you and makes ends meet for you.
You have that hug and that moment to sit and smile and treasure it forever.

Happiness is in the ebb and flow of every day living.

It is just not random enough to be acquired off a stall or rack. It isn't buried anywhere but your will which whenever wants can dig it up and make it an every day part of life.

God Bless!

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WW: George Clooney

1. "I grew up in the world of bad television, on my dad's sets and then as a young schmuck on dating shows and so on." What is your all time worst TV show and why?

I despise Bold and the Beautiful and I am yet to figure out a good enough reason to state!

2. "I'm certainly the last person to give advice on, well, anything." Where do you get advice?

I get it from the intellect I have fed over the years and the gut feeling which pops up on everything and mind you it is the best feeling ever!

3. "Run for office? No. I've slept with too many women, I've done too many drugs, and I've been to too many parties." What celebrity do you think could make a run for office?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm Denzel Washington :P

4. "The only failure is not to try." Tell us about a recent failure.

My recent failure is probably the incapability to fall for a guy at work because he has no degree under his belt and just started his career at the age of 29. Hmmm yes it is more of my failure than his.

5. "After doing One Fine Day and playing a pediatrician on ER, I'll never have kids. I'm going to have a vasectomy." If you have kids, tell us about them. If not, would you want them?

I will God willing have my own kids one day. I plan on three. Two sons and a daughter. And they will be kids mind you, not like robots of today!

6. "You have only a short period of time in your life to make your mark, and I'm there now." Have you made your mark yet?

I am yet to make a leap for certain things and perhaps the time isn't now, it will surely come one day.

7. "I don't believe in happy endings, but I do believe in happy travels, because ultimately, you die at a very young age, or you live long enough to watch your friends die. It's a mean thing, life." Do you believe in happy endings?

I did until many endings were rather very uncalled for. Now I know the happy beginnings and cherish them more and of course the good ride which leads us to good memories.

8. "I was in a bar and I said to a friend, 'You know, we've become those 40-year-old guys we used to look at and say, 'Isn't it sad?'" Have you ever felt that way?

lol! at 27 I think I feel like that completely!

9. "I'd think, 'In a relationship, we should never have this kind of fight.' Then, instead of figuring out how to make it work, I looked for a way to get out of it. The truth is, you shouldn't be married if you're that kind of person." Have you ever left a relationship that you later regretted?

Nope. I left no relationship. In fact the people involved in the relationship called it off and no I am entirely certain it was their loss completely!

10. "I'm the flavor of the month." What celebrity is your flavor of the month?

hmmmm... tough one! I think it is Hugh Jackman, like all my other months

wednesday wickedness ;)

Saintly Satisfaction

Kissing, and I mean spontaneous, brash and ardent kissing is hands down hundred times better than those quickies in sex. It lubricates all the right gears and ignites all the right passions, sinfully setting the stage, saintly meeting satisfaction!

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Dissolved

As love deviated from the bond we shared, it left my heart and mind saturated with you and instead dissolved my identity, causing commotion and chaos within my existence.

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Caustic Love

If only I hadn’t let the hunches in my heart dictate the course of my life to you. I took your caustic love for healing and sacrificed my essence for you – only to wish now that I could have me back and let you go once and for all.

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